university

many parents forces their children to study, some kids forces themselves to study

some can't stand the pressure and lead to some bad habbits and put a lot of pressure on themselves

key is:

if something is bothering you-quit it

we all looking for a comfort life

we studying hard to get good results and we become workaholic

see those pity people working in large firms and big businesses, money and power never satisfy them, they always hunger for more.

we chinese have a word for those people, direct translation is 'hungry ghosts in hell where their throat is tiny as needle and tummy is big as a drum'

you can see people in africa and china and india the happy index is much higher than people in england and US

by happy i mean positive happiness, not the negative happiness gained by beating people in a football or basketball game and humiliating people and not by harming or hurting others physically and mentally to proof that you are a so called 'champion' or 'winner' to gain happiness

in china, india and africa, we are happy and thanksgiving to have water to drink or food to eat, happiness is very basic

but in UK or US people are happy for a short while by going shopping, a new i phone gives them a buzz, a text message from a mate gives them a buzz, but all these are build on taking advantages of other countries less able than themselves

its a shame and its a pity

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觀點與角度 Viewpoints and perspectives

If we stands at different points and look at the same matter or person in different viewpoints we would have different perspectives, outcomes and results to the same matter.

confidence and affect

people with less confidence always got affected by people with more confidence than themselves

accept and agree with yourself

accept and agree with who yourself is, what yourself is doing and the situation yourself is in and what happened to yourself is a key to success

物以類聚 grouping

everyone and everything that groups together then they must share common points and there must be some or many similarities between them

緣份

everything we do and everyone we meet, there must be a 緣份 in between

緣份 is what made i meet 'who and what' i meet and made i do what i do

pattern of mood and action

there is a pattern of our mood and action

if we want to change the way we act, we have to trace back to the origin of why we have that mood and trace back to the first time and in what situation and mood which we set this pattern in and why and what made we act like this in the first time and try to modify and change from there

what goes round comes round

因果報應

己所不欲 勿施於人

treat others as you like to be treated

mood, action and communication

we need to find out or explain our action sometimes

normally we act and without aware and knowing why we act so

we have to communicate with ourselves and people around us

try and find out and explain our action and when we trace back to the origin there's how you can change

many people misunderstand themselves and others and ran into many arguments and fights but if we understand ourselves and explain ourselves well and gives a reason for what we do then in most cases people would understand where you are coming from and they may even help you for what you do

so understanding your own act and communicate well is a key to success

反叛與自發性 Rebellion and spontaneity

when we teach or lead we need to spark off the spontaneity in our clients

the more we tell them what to do and instruct them what to do and tell them can or cannot do this and that the more rebel they become

the more rebel the less spontaneity

key is to spark off their spontaneity like spark off an oil tank and let them explode

never give them a fire and burn for them

all they need is a tiny spark in their oil tank, a tiny spark in the right place

failure and mistake

can you be a bigger failure and major mistake from

gates

buffett

lee

ho

shaws

tong

tsang

and last but not least

ma

if not cheer up

positive

think positively is one of the key to success

the result

experience is more important that the result in many cases

exp

experience from experiment

experiment with experience

figure game

spending everyday is a number game

learn how to earn and spend wisely is the key to success

wise

don't wanna be clever

don't wanna be smart

wanna be wise

think wisely

plan wisely

act wisely

make decisions wisely

earn wisely

spend wisely

baby oh behave wisely

imperfection

we have learn to accept imperfection in order to gain success

priorities

we have to put things in priorities and in orders of importance

delete the unimportant tasks and focus on the important ones

we have to give and take, give up the non importance to gain time and energy for the importance

bin the rubbish and we would have more space to breath and display the needed

tidy our closet, house and mind

think in others shoes

stand at others position and see if you feel good about how others treats you the way you would treats them

treats others as you would like to be treated

truth and real world

although we should have free thoughts and imagination but if we drift too far from the truth and the real world we may be lost in the wonder world of imagination and thoughts of the non existence

success is putting imaginations into practice

cameraman and model

a good cameraman can produce nice pictures whether the model is good or not

a good model can produce nice pictures whether the cameraman is good or not

enviroment

environment is the key to every problem, in order to solve problems the surrounding environment must change, by that i mean if a place is not suitable for yourself, leave and go somewhere else

find somewhere you feel comfortable and success will be along the way

if the setting of your computer desk or chair is bad then you bound to get injury of muscle and tendons, it is the environment, if you sit somewhere set up properly, the injury will recover and you can work comfortably and gain success easily

ability

the common point of all mental health patients is: they tried to do things beyond their ability

in another words, if they plan what they do well and only take on things within their ability then their illness would disappear

mental illness is the mind overload and it shuts down and blocks out any more incoming signals to protect itself from damaging and overheat

the truth is too tough for them so the brain decides not to take anymore orders and basically it gives up functioning and shuts down for a rest till the problem passed by and the pressure released then the brain would lift the barrier and function normally again

failure

Can you be a more failure then them

Mao

Hitler

Napoleon

Stalin

Bush

If not, cheer up

jail

Many people in mental homes and in jail are people that care and people with heart, many leaders and so called successful people in society are people that play dirty tricks

fish

You cannot teach a fish to walk, you don’t need to teach a fish to swim

education and feelings

An educated person is without feelings, they only use their head and never use their heart, the less educated people is, the more they use their heart and the less they use their head

rich

if you go to so called high class wine parties when people says hi to you then they swift to others after a second and so on, those are act of the head and calculations of benefits and losses those are acts without heart

family karaoke

Go to karaoke with family is a good outing, it can bring a family together and it is a good time for bringing girlfriends and boyfriends to the family and for them to get to know each other.

schools and learning

In Hong Kong parents treat their children as morons so they act so, we need to give them a free hand for trial and error within a certain extent, we can only learn when we tried it, baring in mind that many things cannot be tried and we can give examples and case studies for them to understand and learn there and then.

Nowadays the education in Hong Kong is like a primary school kids may know very well how to drive a rocket to space but he/she may doesn’t even know how to clean themselves

Love

Love cannot be calculated and there is no equations for love, love cannot be compared, exchanged, purchased or returned.

family

Anyone would find frictions between people close to you especially family members and between parents and children

Time

We existed in the same place, at different points in time

mental health

everyone has got mental illness in a sense, no ones mood can be average at all times and if you are being critical-not balanced and non averaged mood is called mental illness