無形容詞 無名詞
no label no adjective no noun
無形容無名稱
無相對無分別無比較
無代表無標籤
無量度無計算
無規矩無規則無規律
無限制無法規
無標準無規範
無空間
無時間地方人物
無法理情
無情緒情感情理
無貪嗔癡
無苦
無問題無煩惱
無身心靈
無相
無你無我無眾生
無福祿壽命運
無生老病死無成著壞空
Sunday, December 30, 2012
no n none
no n none
‘it all seeded n started from adjectives and nouns that you put on things to make it come true
stop using adjectives and nouns labels is the key to your locked cell’
ghosts cannot scare babies
you must learnt what a ghost is before ghosts can scare you
we are so happy during baby times, the older we get, the less happy we become, why?
because from birth onwards we learn to put adjectives and nouns labels on anything and everything
we learn different rules and measurements to measure and compare ourselves with
things become relative, yin and yang, black and white, right and wrong and we become happy and sad with questions and problems arising
our memory bank store more and more bad experiences and feelings, in order to prevent them from happening again, we become cold blooded and freeze up our heart feelings, to feel good and for self benefit, we can do anything and everything needed
if you become so ill that your soul mind and feelings is jailed, my method is for you:
you feel bad?
what is bad?
bad comes to life when you describe it with the adjective bad and with a noun of yourself relate to it
your brain trace back to the memory bank of model responses and feelings to make you feel truly bad with related bad thoughts speeches and actions correspond to your adjectives and nouns effects from every part of you expressing and acting these actions to express your feelings
it all seeded n started from adjectives and nouns that you put on things to make it come true
stop using adjectives and nouns labels is the key to your locked cell
Saturday, December 29, 2012
no adjective no noun no label
no adjective no noun no label
“adjectives and nouns labels controls n jails our mood and soul
to jail break, stop using adjectives and nouns labels
full stop”
from birth we started to learn adjectives, nouns and labels anything and everything we know
as we get to around 30 years old, our adjectives nouns and labels bank is exploding with many ill meanings and bad experiences links to them which drag us down
adjectives nouns and labels is the seed which grows roots stem leafs etc
when we use adjectives and nouns to label people matter n stuff, we traces through the roots to the fruits of good and bad experiences stored in our memory which effects our mood with thoughts speeches and actions which controls us
we have soul so we have mood
soul have mood due to these nouns and adjectives labels
adjectives and nouns labels controls n jails our mood and soul
to jail break, stop using adjectives and nouns labels
full stop
Sunday, December 23, 2012
苦惱？ 不安？ 不和？
苦惱？
不安？
不和？
改善關係
溝通補習
對象：子女 父母 夫婦 情侶
兄弟姊妹 上司下屬
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馬碩鴻 (matthew ma)
91940869
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
symbolic
symbolic
everything represents themselves
when we hear someone swear, scream, shout or hit us, we would be very angry and revenge, hitting them back or something
if we are a baby, would that be different?
yes, we don’t know the words, the sound and the action represent
they are just feelings, when it hit us, it hit us, then its gone
as we grow old, our mind are full of labels
this mean that and that mean this, we become more and more messed up and confused
actually, what we feel is what we feel
it hit us, it hit us, its gone, its gone
no symbolic
no relation
no memory
light life
zen
now
now
flexible, here and now
adapt to change any moment
accept and appreciate limitations
communicate, appreciate, cherish, respect and faith
communication is needed between souls
if we cannot change, we should adapt
we should accept now and utilize what we have
many use communication advantages to benefit themselves over ones less able to communicate than themselves
many communicate well but others pretend not getting the message for their own good
wise men knows feelings of others and themselves and make others and themselves feel good as a result and target
clever and smart guys knows the feelings of themselves and others but they choose to benefit themselves and sacrifice the feelings of others
dull boy don’t know the feelings of themselves and others and they harm others and themselves by doing not appropriate actions with their raw feelings.
write straight from heart and never check what i write...this is matthew ma
self II
self II
when Jon’s parents divorce they feel guilty when they face Jon and they use cash n luxury goods to exchange for Jon’s acceptance and forgiveness
no matter Jon accept or reject the cash and goods will do no difference to the decision, fact and result of his parents separation
in other words, Jon’s parents love themselves more than they love Jon
shall Jon accept cash and goods?
key is the cash and goods is symbolic for contract of acceptance of exchange for forgiveness which is not quite right and fair
Jon’s parents is responsible for forever for this damage done to Jon and no matter what they do they can never get even with Jon
cash and presents does not equal to getting even
what can Jon do?
Jon can do nothing but accept the limitations of the selfishness of human including his parents
If one day he is dad of others he could love his children more than he love himself.
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
self
self
Jon’s parents use money and luxury goods to exchange Jon’s acceptance of their divorce
Although what Jon truly need is a family but this cannot come true because his parents put their own feelings and benefits before jon’s
they love themselves more than they love Jon
Jon can refuse or accept the money but both ways will do absolutely no difference to the decision of separation of his parents and will do no difference to parents put the importance of themselves before Jon
same situation with my parents, they will never change, they will never put me before their own feelings and benefits
if i accept what they want to give me or if i refuse what they want to give me will do absolutely no difference to the order they put themselves in front of me
everyone put themselves before others, no matter how close the relationship
even family and love ones, this is human.
Sunday, December 9, 2012
改善關係 溝通治療
苦惱？
不安？
不和？
改善關係
溝通治療
對象：子女 父母 夫婦 情侶
兄弟姊妹 上司下屬
電話 ∕ SMS / whatsapp / 留言：
馬碩鴻（matthew)
91940869
改善關係 溝通治療
苦惱？
不安？
不和？
改善關係
溝通治療
對象：子女 父母 夫婦 情侶
兄弟姊妹 上司下屬
電話 ∕ SMS / whatsapp / 留言：
馬碩鴻（matthew)
91940869
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