problems from choices

problems are generated from 'too many choices'

if we don't own anything, don't have anything, problems would not be there

a fire starts because we have something to burn with

in the city we have to think hard on what to wear, what to eat, what to buy, which friend to call and meet

think! if we have no clothes to wear, no food to eat, no money to buy, no friend to call or meet in the first place...where are all the problems gone...haha

so the poorest place on earth is where people find least worries and found most happiness

that's why the more we have and the richer we are the more unhappy and the more dissatisfy we becomes

all we need to do is to unload...unload what we have thats when our greed, our hatred, our fear and our problems be solved

starts with labelling ends with none

labelling

correct labelling is key to a healthy mental and physical status

positive and encouragement

positive and encouragement belongs to someone with EQ

gain vs lose

if you gain something you bound to lose something

if you lose something you bound to gain something

everyone is gifted

everyone is gifted in some way, shape or form

key is to observe and find our gift and develop it well

create chances

you can either

wait for chances that appear in you life or

get your ass in gear and create chances for yourself

IQ vs EQ

IQ+EQ=wise

IQ on its own=clever, smart but moody because their complicated thoughts cannot be expressed and shared with others due to very few people understands what they are thinking, impatient, tends to take advantage over others

people with IQ has many worries, many problems to worry about, the higher the IQ the more worry and problems appears in front of you

EQ: the higher the EQ the more we are able to solve problems

people with IQ is problems generator, people with EQ is problems solver

of course if you have both IQ and EQ would be best but if for me i would put EQ before IQ

EQ:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_quotient

IQ:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IQ

now becomes past

do not live in the past

do not calculate the future

"focus on what you are doing"

now does not exist because now becomes the past

champion

the effort between the champion and number two can be miles different

the more effort and under the right conditions and training methods will bring us success

in Buddhist way there are endless before and after life, every single thing we do in every single life counts

a tree is one metre taller than the other one, the root underground is several times more

a boxing champion is the one got punch most as rocky says: life is about how much you can take and keep moving forward, thats how winning is done...

no free lunch

when things are on offer, on discount vouchers or on promotions i would ignore them in most cases

my theory is:

i do not want to take advantage over anyone

i do not want anyone taken any advantage of me

always remember the old saying:

there is no free lunch...

gifted education

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=3169&langno=2

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=2377&langno=2

Education Department Hong Kong

http://www.edb.gov.hk/

best vs worst

the best person has some bad points

the worst person has some good points

key is to find the good points in everyone and develop them well

gifted and rebel

there is a strong connection between gifted and rebel

the more gifted the person is the more rebel they are

the early age of gifted person's form is like jelly-not yet shaped

they are shaped in a whatever shape container we put them in-by that i mean if they are lead to do positive things they when become positive and if they are lead to think negative so they will too but their gift and talent will not be affected

their gift can be either covered and forgotten or found and developed

it is important to find and develop our gift in our early age, the earlier we correctly found and develop our gift the less we will hit our heads against hard walls and getting a permanant damage and lead to life, mood and society problems

different kinds of seeds needs different conditions to grow in and needs to be kept in different kinds of environment to prevent it from rotting, if we can identify the type of seeds and give them the right factors and conditions, i am sure the seed would turn into a healthy plant which will supply us with endless fruits and seeds in the age to come...

have said all that-I believe strongly in: ' we are all gifted in some way, shape or form, the key is to find it and develop it and we can be happy and successful'

Hong Kong Public and Private Hospitals

http://www.gov.hk/tc/residents/health/hosp/index.htm

http://www.gov.hk/en/residents/health/hosp/index.htm

Donald Tsang-Chief Executive of Hong Kong

http://www.ceo.gov.hk/

give

I am thanksgiving that i can give

I give hope to my family and friends and people that meets me

I give up my health for doctors to feed their family

I give up my time and energy for social workers to earn their meal

I give up my money for clothes, food, accommodation and transportation and every cent i spent is to keep the economy growing, keep the world moving, keep the people living, keep everyone feeding

The more able i am the more i give

If i am not here many will suffer

So i thank myself that i can give

living

I once asked myself what is the meaning of life and what is the purpose of living

There are many answers after thinking hard for a while

I live/exist because there are lots of lives in need of my helping hand

I enjoy the process of living

I enjoy doing what i am doing

I enjoy being an ass...joking

I enjoy the the disabilities, the challenges, the difficulties and the game of life

The purpose of my existance is to help every single living thing to become Buddha and to "empty the hell out"...literally

Hope heaven won't become to crowded...haha

Fruit

Fruit of thought cannot be expressed

Well expressed is not fruit of thought

Fine line

There is a fine line draw between genius and lunatic

some says the 'line' is non existance

Why

'Why am I doing what I am doing', I once asked myself

'Because I am doing what I am doing' is the answer

Love

Love solves most problems

but

Most problems comes from love

Level

Talk to people above your level and you will learn

Talk to people at the same level as you and you will find resonance

Talk to people below your level and you will waste your time

Make sense

Things that make sense will work

Considerate

Think and see from others point of view will bring you success

purposes

We all have different purposes in life

We all have different dreams and different targets in life

The best target is to benefit ourselves and benefit others

Hong Kong Governement Head of IT

http://www.ogcio.gov.hk/

IT tender

http://www.ogcio.gov.hk/eng/itbusiness/eitbw.htm

Hong Kong Government Departments list

http://www.gov.hk/en/about/govdirectory/govwebsite/alphabetical.htm

http://www.gov.hk/tc/about/govdirectory/govwebsite/alphabetical.htm

Cultural Centre Hong Kong

http://www.lcsd.gov.hk/CE/CulturalService/HKCC/index.html

City Hall Hong Kong

http://www.lcsd.gov.hk/CE/CulturalService/CityHall/index.php

Hong Kong Arts Museum

http://www.lcsd.gov.hk/ce/Museum/Arts/

tai chi

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5BHjcvGpBIY&feature=channel

my space online music

http://www.myspace.com/robbiewilliamsofficial

http://www.myspace.com/

http://music.myspace.com/

http://uk.myspace.com/

People's Republic of China online

http://www.gov.cn/

Hong Kong Government online

http://www.gov.hk/

tvb

http://mytv.tvb.com/

http://www.tvb.com/

online tv

http://www.pps.tv/

perry chiu theatre shows

http://www.perrychiu.com/

zenter

http://www.zenter.hk/

webhost

http://www.webhost.com.hk/

getty images

http://www.gettyimages.com/

Chinese English dictionary

http://humanum.arts.cuhk.edu.hk/Lexis/Lindict/

travel

http://www.lonelyplanet.com/

useful links

http://tutorhongkong.blogspot.com/

http://bedtimesstoriesandtales.blogspot.com/

http://mm2228.blogspot.com/

http://help4everyoneinneed.blogspot.com/

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http://models2228.blogspot.com/

Hong Kong Public Libraries online

http://www.hkpl.gov.hk/

ladybird publishing

English story books for childrens

http://www.ladybird.co.uk/

useful links

http://bedtimesstoriesandtales.blogspot.com/

http://help4everyoneinneed.blogspot.com/

http://mm2228.blogspot.com/

http://m2228-models2228.blogspot.com/

compassion magazine online

http://www.buddhistcompassion.org/

magazine available in 7 eleven convenience store

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Radio Television Hong Kong

http://www.rthk.org.hk/

YouTube

http://www.youtube.com/

Google translate

http://translate.google.com/#

Wikipedia-online encyclopaedia

http://www.wikipedia.org/

http://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:首页

Google Hong Kong

http://www.google.com.hk/

Gmail

http://mail.google.com/

Picasa-online photo album

http://picasaweb.google.com.hk/

Blogger-Google blogspot

http://www.blogger.com/

Google applications

http://www.google.com.hk/intl/zh-TW/options/

South China Morning Post

http://www.scmp.com/

Ming Pao news online

http://www.mingpao.com/

Apple news online

http://hk.apple.nextmedia.com/

insurance

the best cover in life is to treat others as we would like to be treated

what goes round comes round

let Buddha, God and Allah take care of the rest

cover up

Frank: if you care and love yourself and your love ones you need to be covered

Mat: if you care and love me and my family, cover us

thank

we thank the less able for giving us a chance to give

we thank the more able for giving us the chance to improve

bus ride

religious beliefs is like a bus ride to me

i want to get from A to B in life

sometimes i need to change bus to fulfil my journey

bus (religious theories) is only a tool that i use to fulfil my purpose of getting from A to B during my lifetime

we need to get there safely and on time and we need to make sure that we have enough money to pay the fare

change

make a change or live with it

do not moan and do not complaint

right

anyone and everyone has the right to do whatever they wish and want as long as they do not harm themselves or harm others

quit and leave

peer pressure is powerful

if you feel that you are affected negatively by your peer and that they cause you have a negative feeling or give pressure to you to try and force you or affect you to do anything against your wish

quit and leave as quick as you can

baby cans

on the flight, most drinks are in baby cans (small can that has a 50% volume than regular drinks can)

actually baby cans of soft drinks and beer can have a much higher profit margins

for our health and for the environment 'baby cans' help

for fanta, cola and beer (what i drink other than water) i only drink half a can for the purpose of health

i don't mind paying 75% of the price of a regular can to get a baby can because i do not have to waste the drink also i can care for my health and the enviroment

portions

wise restaurants are getting better in Hong Kong nowadays

they keeps the same price and decreases the portions and add more vegetables in the meat

we are able to try more variety in a meal and take in more vegetables and lead to a much healthier body and mind

point of view

a same matter or a same person

if you look at it, him/her from different angles and from different points

the conclusion would always be different

supply demand

normally speaking a product or a service is expensive and will rise because the demand is more than the supply

if the supply is more than the demand the price of that product or service would fall

noodles

two university students are trying to share 2 packets of noodles that cooks in a pot

A cooked it

B seperate the noodles "fairly" in two bowls

A choose a bowl and eats

be fair

be square

thankful

am thankful for who i am and what i can give

hear the view and see the sound

i have a crazy thought that may benefit the blind and deaf

what would happen if the blind can hear the view and the deaf can see the sound

its all about reflection, recepting, transforming and transmitting messages to our brain

have a think...

appear

be ready

if one day...

Buddha, God or Allah appear right in front on you...

what would you do...

how would you react...

be ready...

any moment now

purpose

the purpose of the existence of Buddha, God and Allah is to affect all living things including mankind in a positive way, shape or form

outter inner

our inner self is much more important then our outter shell

if we believe in Buddha, God or Allah, it is useless and hopeless to just wear our belief on the outside

whats more important is we are affected positively by them and their holy theories in the inside

anchoring

we can choose how to live our life

if we anchor ourselves on positive and fond memories, we would become a happy bunny

benifits

if a person try to direct you to whatever direction or tell you to do or buy something and when you get there, done it, bought it or believe in it that they would be benefited in some way, shape or form, then they do not worth trusting because they are bias and they put their own benefit before you and your benefit

advantages

when there is a special offer i always refuse

because i feel pity on those companies, i do not want to take advantages over them

whats more

i do not want advantages being taken of me

peace

peace can be gained by eliminating the conflicts and differences of our inner and outter self

ghost and baby

what would happen if a ghost or devil try to scare a new born baby

have a think

religion

many people use religion as a media to harm others for their own benefits

Buddha, God and Allah are not blind, those people would be punished

affect positively

we should only affect and be affected positively

reflection

our eyes is a pair of light receptive organ, our eyes recept light bounce off things so we are able to tell where things are

there are 2 girls, A is ugly, B is beauty

but if people always tell A that she is beauty and tell B that she is ugly

A would really thinks that she is beauty and B would really thinks herself is ugly

if there is no light, we cannot see

if there is no feedback, we do not know

try to encourage people around you and be encouraged by others

evil angel holy devil 邪惡天使 神聖惡魔

evil angel is starting to fall from the very top

holy devil is starting to rise from the very bottom

but what we should be looking for is the middle line

in fact there is no clean cut of right or wrong, devil and angel is only a joke

fell down gets up

In western families when a baby fell down they need to get up on their own

In chinese families when a baby fell down their parents would help them to get up

The result is western babies learns to walk quicker then chinese babies

To some extent living things are learning by doing, we tends to question and disbelieve in what we are told and we tends to test or try things out ourselves and learn from our experience.

Having said that many things we just cannot try because they are addictive or life risking but many things are also worth trying, worth testing out and worth learning by doing.

cost

a bottle of water cost nothing from the tab, cost ten bucks from a coffee shop, cost your life in the desert

Judgement base on experience

We make decisions and decide right or wrong base on what we seen, heard, smelt and felt in the past

In another words our action is controlled by our past experience

We have to try and look at a matter in many different points of view before a sensible decision can be made.

The fact is we got told most of the things we know and that we have not yet experienced them ourselves

The westerners got told terrorism is bad and that we must fight and beat terrorism, they never ask why terrorism existed, why would someone has nothing better to do and go and give up their valuable life and be a terrorist??? What make them do that???

The british and americans always felt so and so countries are suffering so we have to save them by sending soldiers there, but what the news have not told them is their own countries has many people that needs to take care of.

In a more adult way of looking at it is, why would someone use their own pocket money to help others where themselves is in deep debt, is there something they can get in return?

Actually the best help they can do to the world is to pay back all the debt and stop being so nosy.

messenger from above

i see myself as an messenger from above

i innovate lots of ideas everyday, many work and many doesn't, many got buried and many got fulfilled in practice

i like people to copy my ideas because i believe people would only copy good ideas and if my ideas got copied by others then my job as an messenger is done and that i have affected the world in a positive way

good man vs bad guy

when you are bad you tends to think everyone around you is bad and you always live in fear

but when you are honest and good to others you tends to think everyone around you is as honest and as good as yourself

you are the one to choose how you live your life

university

many parents forces their children to study, some kids forces themselves to study

some can't stand the pressure and lead to some bad habbits and put a lot of pressure on themselves

key is:

if something is bothering you-quit it

we all looking for a comfort life

we studying hard to get good results and we become workaholic

see those pity people working in large firms and big businesses, money and power never satisfy them, they always hunger for more.

we chinese have a word for those people, direct translation is 'hungry ghosts in hell where their throat is tiny as needle and tummy is big as a drum'

you can see people in africa and china and india the happy index is much higher than people in england and US

by happy i mean positive happiness, not the negative happiness gained by beating people in a football or basketball game and humiliating people and not by harming or hurting others physically and mentally to proof that you are a so called 'champion' or 'winner' to gain happiness

in china, india and africa, we are happy and thanksgiving to have water to drink or food to eat, happiness is very basic

but in UK or US people are happy for a short while by going shopping, a new i phone gives them a buzz, a text message from a mate gives them a buzz, but all these are build on taking advantages of other countries less able than themselves

its a shame and its a pity

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觀點與角度 Viewpoints and perspectives

If we stands at different points and look at the same matter or person in different viewpoints we would have different perspectives, outcomes and results to the same matter.

confidence and affect

people with less confidence always got affected by people with more confidence than themselves

accept and agree with yourself

accept and agree with who yourself is, what yourself is doing and the situation yourself is in and what happened to yourself is a key to success

物以類聚 grouping

everyone and everything that groups together then they must share common points and there must be some or many similarities between them

緣份

everything we do and everyone we meet, there must be a 緣份 in between

緣份 is what made i meet 'who and what' i meet and made i do what i do

pattern of mood and action

there is a pattern of our mood and action

if we want to change the way we act, we have to trace back to the origin of why we have that mood and trace back to the first time and in what situation and mood which we set this pattern in and why and what made we act like this in the first time and try to modify and change from there

what goes round comes round

因果報應

己所不欲 勿施於人

treat others as you like to be treated

mood, action and communication

we need to find out or explain our action sometimes

normally we act and without aware and knowing why we act so

we have to communicate with ourselves and people around us

try and find out and explain our action and when we trace back to the origin there's how you can change

many people misunderstand themselves and others and ran into many arguments and fights but if we understand ourselves and explain ourselves well and gives a reason for what we do then in most cases people would understand where you are coming from and they may even help you for what you do

so understanding your own act and communicate well is a key to success

反叛與自發性 Rebellion and spontaneity

when we teach or lead we need to spark off the spontaneity in our clients

the more we tell them what to do and instruct them what to do and tell them can or cannot do this and that the more rebel they become

the more rebel the less spontaneity

key is to spark off their spontaneity like spark off an oil tank and let them explode

never give them a fire and burn for them

all they need is a tiny spark in their oil tank, a tiny spark in the right place

failure and mistake

can you be a bigger failure and major mistake from

gates

buffett

lee

ho

shaws

tong

tsang

and last but not least

ma

if not cheer up

positive

think positively is one of the key to success

the result

experience is more important that the result in many cases

exp

experience from experiment

experiment with experience

figure game

spending everyday is a number game

learn how to earn and spend wisely is the key to success

wise

don't wanna be clever

don't wanna be smart

wanna be wise

think wisely

plan wisely

act wisely

make decisions wisely

earn wisely

spend wisely

baby oh behave wisely

imperfection

we have learn to accept imperfection in order to gain success

priorities

we have to put things in priorities and in orders of importance

delete the unimportant tasks and focus on the important ones

we have to give and take, give up the non importance to gain time and energy for the importance

bin the rubbish and we would have more space to breath and display the needed

tidy our closet, house and mind