Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Saturday, December 19, 2009
別人笑我忒瘋癲
桃花塢裡桃花庵，桃花庵下桃花仙；桃花仙人種桃樹，又摘桃花賣酒錢。酒醒只在花前坐，酒醉換來花下眠；
半醒半醉日復日，花落花開年復年。
但願老死花酒間，不願鞠躬車馬前；
車塵馬足富者趣，酒盞花枝貧者緣。
若將富貴比貧賤，一在平地一在天；
若將貧賤比車馬，他得驅馳我得閒。
別人笑我忒瘋癲，我笑別人看不穿；
不見五陵豪傑墓，無花無酒鋤做田。
wrong none, wrong once
some faults once is too much
learn from experience
remember what you did wrong the first time and correct the faults in the second time round
Thursday, December 17, 2009
self learning and inspiring
teacher can only teach you what they know
good teachers should inspire their students for self learning and find ways to solve their own and others' problems
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
teenaids' coming event 1227
聖誕快樂 一'箱'情緣
2009-12-27 (日) 2-6pm
節目:神秘精彩遊戲，茶點
地點:GM Kitchen (旺角)
彌敦道594-596號旺角新城8樓
報名資格:
開心同學會會員，每一會員可帶同
1-2位非會員參加
收費: 會員 $130 非會員 $140 名額: 40人
報名方法︰現在開始，先電郵或致電Ann報名，
然後將費用存入觸動戶口 (中國銀行012-808-000281-37)
入數紙傳真或電郵給Ann (touch@touchk.hk) 或 可以寄支票到本中心
(支票抬頭: 觸動輔導中心或Touch Counseling Centre)，支票背面及給我們的入數收據需註明:
報名人姓名，電話號碼及一箱情緣
http://www.facebook.com/event.
Tel: 2116 5733 ， Fax: 2870 3623
觸動輔導中心
開心同學會第七擊籌委啟
atty ching, touch counseling, touch theatre and teenaids
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Monday, December 14, 2009
IQ negative and EQ positive
IQ-negative
EQ-positve
people with IQ tends to think negatively and be negative
people with EQ tends to think positively and be positive
problems from choices
problems are generated from 'too many choices'
if we don't own anything, don't have anything, problems would not be there
a fire starts because we have something to burn with
in the city we have to think hard on what to wear, what to eat, what to buy, which friend to call and meet
think! if we have no clothes to wear, no food to eat, no money to buy, no friend to call or meet in the first place...where are all the problems gone...haha
so the poorest place on earth is where people find least worries and found most happiness
that's why the more we have and the richer we are the more unhappy and the more dissatisfy we becomes
all we need to do is to unload...unload what we have thats when our greed, our hatred, our fear and our problems be solved
Sunday, December 13, 2009
gain vs lose
if you gain something you bound to lose something
if you lose something you bound to gain something
everyone is gifted
everyone is gifted in some way, shape or form
key is to observe and find our gift and develop it well
create chances
you can either
wait for chances that appear in you life or
get your ass in gear and create chances for yourself
IQ vs EQ
IQ+EQ=wise
IQ on its own=clever, smart but moody because their complicated thoughts cannot be expressed and shared with others due to very few people understands what they are thinking, impatient, tends to take advantage over others
people with IQ has many worries, many problems to worry about, the higher the IQ the more worry and problems appears in front of you
EQ: the higher the EQ the more we are able to solve problems
people with IQ is problems generator, people with EQ is problems solver
of course if you have both IQ and EQ would be best but if for me i would put EQ before IQ
EQ:
IQ:
Friday, December 11, 2009
now becomes past
do not live in the past
do not calculate the future
"focus on what you are doing"
now does not exist because now becomes the past
Monday, December 7, 2009
champion
the effort between the champion and number two can be miles different
the more effort and under the right conditions and training methods will bring us success
in Buddhist way there are endless before and after life, every single thing we do in every single life counts
a tree is one metre taller than the other one, the root underground is several times more
a boxing champion is the one got punch most as rocky says: life is about how much you can take and keep moving forward, thats how winning is done...
no free lunch
when things are on offer, on discount vouchers or on promotions i would ignore them in most cases
my theory is:
i do not want to take advantage over anyone
i do not want anyone taken any advantage of me
always remember the old saying:
there is no free lunch...
Sunday, December 6, 2009
best vs worst
the best person has some bad points
the worst person has some good points
key is to find the good points in everyone and develop them well
gifted and rebel
there is a strong connection between gifted and rebel
the more gifted the person is the more rebel they are
the early age of gifted person's form is like jelly-not yet shaped
they are shaped in a whatever shape container we put them in-by that i mean if they are lead to do positive things they when become positive and if they are lead to think negative so they will too but their gift and talent will not be affected
their gift can be either covered and forgotten or found and developed
it is important to find and develop our gift in our early age, the earlier we correctly found and develop our gift the less we will hit our heads against hard walls and getting a permanant damage and lead to life, mood and society problems
different kinds of seeds needs different conditions to grow in and needs to be kept in different kinds of environment to prevent it from rotting, if we can identify the type of seeds and give them the right factors and conditions, i am sure the seed would turn into a healthy plant which will supply us with endless fruits and seeds in the age to come...
have said all that-I believe strongly in: ' we are all gifted in some way, shape or form, the key is to find it and develop it and we can be happy and successful'
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
give
I am thanksgiving that i can give
I give hope to my family and friends and people that meets me
I give up my health for doctors to feed their family
I give up my time and energy for social workers to earn their meal
I give up my money for clothes, food, accommodation and transportation and every cent i spent is to keep the economy growing, keep the world moving, keep the people living, keep everyone feeding
The more able i am the more i give
If i am not here many will suffer
So i thank myself that i can give
living
I once asked myself what is the meaning of life and what is the purpose of living
There are many answers after thinking hard for a while
I live/exist because there are lots of lives in need of my helping hand
I enjoy the process of living
I enjoy doing what i am doing
I enjoy being an ass...joking
I enjoy the the disabilities, the challenges, the difficulties and the game of life
The purpose of my existance is to help every single living thing to become Buddha and to "empty the hell out"...literally
Hope heaven won't become to crowded...haha
Friday, November 20, 2009
Why
'Why am I doing what I am doing', I once asked myself
'Because I am doing what I am doing' is the answer
Level
Talk to people above your level and you will learn
Talk to people at the same level as you and you will find resonance
Talk to people below your level and you will waste your time
purposes
We all have different purposes in life
We all have different dreams and different targets in life
The best target is to benefit ourselves and benefit others
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Barbie, Alex and Long
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Radio Television Hong Kong
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Google translate
Wikipedia-online encyclopaedia
Google Hong Kong
Gmail
Picasa-online photo album
Blogger-Google blogspot
Google applications
South China Morning Post
Ming Pao news online
Apple news online
Monday, November 9, 2009
insurance
the best cover in life is to treat others as we would like to be treated
what goes round comes round
let Buddha, God and Allah take care of the rest
cover up
Frank: if you care and love yourself and your love ones you need to be covered
Mat: if you care and love me and my family, cover us
thank
we thank the less able for giving us a chance to give
we thank the more able for giving us the chance to improve
bus ride
religious beliefs is like a bus ride to me
i want to get from A to B in life
sometimes i need to change bus to fulfil my journey
bus (religious theories) is only a tool that i use to fulfil my purpose of getting from A to B during my lifetime
we need to get there safely and on time and we need to make sure that we have enough money to pay the fare
right
anyone and everyone has the right to do whatever they wish and want as long as they do not harm themselves or harm others
quit and leave
peer pressure is powerful
if you feel that you are affected negatively by your peer and that they cause you have a negative feeling or give pressure to you to try and force you or affect you to do anything against your wish
quit and leave as quick as you can
baby cans
on the flight, most drinks are in baby cans (small can that has a 50% volume than regular drinks can)
actually baby cans of soft drinks and beer can have a much higher profit margins
for our health and for the environment 'baby cans' help
for fanta, cola and beer (what i drink other than water) i only drink half a can for the purpose of health
i don't mind paying 75% of the price of a regular can to get a baby can because i do not have to waste the drink also i can care for my health and the enviroment
portions
wise restaurants are getting better in Hong Kong nowadays
they keeps the same price and decreases the portions and add more vegetables in the meat
we are able to try more variety in a meal and take in more vegetables and lead to a much healthier body and mind
point of view
a same matter or a same person
if you look at it, him/her from different angles and from different points
the conclusion would always be different
supply demand
normally speaking a product or a service is expensive and will rise because the demand is more than the supply
if the supply is more than the demand the price of that product or service would fall
noodles
two university students are trying to share 2 packets of noodles that cooks in a pot
A cooked it
B seperate the noodles "fairly" in two bowls
A choose a bowl and eats
be fair
be square
hear the view and see the sound
i have a crazy thought that may benefit the blind and deaf
what would happen if the blind can hear the view and the deaf can see the sound
its all about reflection, recepting, transforming and transmitting messages to our brain
have a think...
appear
be ready
if one day...
Buddha, God or Allah appear right in front on you...
what would you do...
how would you react...
be ready...
any moment now
purpose
the purpose of the existence of Buddha, God and Allah is to affect all living things including mankind in a positive way, shape or form
outter inner
our inner self is much more important then our outter shell
if we believe in Buddha, God or Allah, it is useless and hopeless to just wear our belief on the outside
whats more important is we are affected positively by them and their holy theories in the inside
anchoring
we can choose how to live our life
if we anchor ourselves on positive and fond memories, we would become a happy bunny
Sunday, November 8, 2009
benifits
if a person try to direct you to whatever direction or tell you to do or buy something and when you get there, done it, bought it or believe in it that they would be benefited in some way, shape or form, then they do not worth trusting because they are bias and they put their own benefit before you and your benefit
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