面對/處理 情緒與情緒問題

文武

文-我不爭第一

武-我不會第二

有 vs 無 / 真 vs 假

真是假時假亦真

假作真時真亦假

有是無處無處有

無為有處有還無

真假無有 確實難分

春夏秋冬

春有百花秋有月

夏有涼風冬有雪

若無閒事掛心頭

便是人間好時節

才子佳人

鬼才

風流 vs 下流

扮極唔靚 vs 唔扮都靚

links for parents of gifted kids

http://www.rthk.org.hk/

http://mytv.tvb.com/

霎時感動

one from the heart stories

http://programme.tvb.com/lifestyle/onefromtheheart

watch some current affairs programmes with your kid

新聞精選

http://mytv.tvb.com/news?tab=programme_list

星期二檔案

http://programme.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport

http://programme.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport/episode/

新聞透視

http://programme.tvb.com/news/newsmagazine

http://programme.tvb.com/news/newsmagazine/episode/

星期日檔案

http://programme.tvb.com/news/sundayreport

http://programme.tvb.com/news/sundayreport/episode/

鏗鏘集

http://programme.rthk.org.hk/rthk/tv/programme.php?name=hkcc&p=858&m=archive&page=1&item=100

沒有牆的世界

http://programme.rthk.org.hk/rthk/tv/programme.php?name=wall_less&d=2010-01-10&p=4675&e=102339&m=episode

今日VIP

http://programme.tvb.com/variety/greenroom/

香港電台

電視節目重温

http://search.rthk.org.hk/search/index.php?submitform=1&queryType=arch_tv&queryStr=

RTHK radio one archive

http://search.rthk.org.hk/search/index.php?submitform=1&queryType=arch_radio1&queryStr=

IQ tests

Wechsler Adult Intelligence Scale (WAIS)

for age 6-16

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wechsler_Intelligence_Scale_for_Children

for age above 16

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wechsler_Adult_Intelligence_Scale

Stanford-Binet Intelligence Scales

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford-Binet_Intelligence_Scales

personality test info

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_test

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thematic_Apperception_Test

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rorschach_inkblot_test

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers-Briggs_Type_Indicator

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keirsey_Temperament_Sorter

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/16PF_Questionnaire

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Learning_styles

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Objective_test

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Projective_test

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_testing

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forer_effect

work based personality test:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morrisby_Profile

http://www.morrisby.com/

secondary schools with gifted ed

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ps/Sec_List.htm

馮漢柱資優教育中心

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?langno=2&nodeID=3625

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ps/Pri_list.htm

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ps/index_c.htm

a very simple questionnaire, do not depend wholly on it

thinking that you are and you actually are is completely different

http://www.edb.gov.hk/FileManager/TC/Content_3649/selection_12.pdf

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=3169&langno=2

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=2377&langno=2

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ge_resource_bank/

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?langno=2&nodeID=7437

call and find out more

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ge_resource_bank/files/parenting/parenting_tips_tc.pdf

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=3171&langno=2

resource bank
http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?langno=2&nodeID=3614

characteristics of gifted children

http://www.edb.gov.hk/FileManager/TC/Content_3649/app_2.pdf

kristy and ceici

Today is Sunday.

Matthew is our English tutor.

There are two students today in the class.

Adrene is off sick today.

How have you been lately?

What kind of sports do you like to play?

Would you like to join me for afternoon tea?

I am hungry, I would like to go for lunch.

I am going to school after breakfast.

I am having sausages, eggs and butter with bread for breakfast everyday.

Chinese new year is coming, we are getting some new clothes and will get lots of red packets.

Summer is coming, I will go to the beach for sunbathing and swimming with my family and friends.

twelve fortune animals

EQ vs IQ observed and written by matthew ma

缺陷與長處/優點與缺點

合皮扭耳 耳擰壹擰

EQ=理性 IQ=感性

心容則容

多元智能

rich me poor me

投放資產

fear, hatred, greed

abnormal people must be trained in abnormal way

abnormal people must train in abnormal way

啟發/發掘/發揮潛能/長處/天賦

真與假

空

無善無惡

wall and balls

if you sit on the wall, you'll hurt your balls

太極與雞囗牛後

jail

天生我才必有用

ts invest

無人完美

management

not my problem

industry connections

打工 networking

be focus and be concentrate

身邊親人/朋友幫助

人際關係與情感表達

情感表達

IQ=自我

溝通技巧與語言能力

objectives and goals

助人自助

count the blessing and thanksgiving

know more size small

the more you know, the smaller you become

...in a positive sense

communication and relationship

growth, change and struggle

back to reality

and start to work

想與做 think and act

路是行出來的

不是想出來的

action plan and year plan

方向與目標

平衡 balance

理性vs感性

彈性 flexibility

不要盛載太多

缷力

龜兔 EQ IQ

龜=EQ=success

兔=IQ=failure

...in the racing story

太極心法

四両撥千斤

缷力

expect

do not expect anyone to do anything for you

do not over expect yourself to do anything

affect your mood

寵辱不驚

意與念

容忍

容忍容忍

可容則容

不容則忍

opponent point of view

別人笑我忒瘋癲

 桃花塢裡桃花庵，桃花庵下桃花仙；

桃花仙人種桃樹，又摘桃花賣酒錢。
酒醒只在花前坐，酒醉換來花下眠；
半醒半醉日復日，花落花開年復年。
但願老死花酒間，不願鞠躬車馬前；
車塵馬足富者趣，酒盞花枝貧者緣。
若將富貴比貧賤，一在平地一在天；
若將貧賤比車馬，他得驅馳我得閒。
別人笑我忒瘋癲，我笑別人看不穿；
不見五陵豪傑墓，無花無酒鋤做田。

both sides of the coin

every matter has 2 sides and they are pros and cons

wrong none, wrong once

some faults once is too much

learn from experience

remember what you did wrong the first time and correct the faults in the second time round

multiple intelligence

intelligence training toys and games

invest

rich me

poor me

taunton invest

taunton big spender/wise spender

trading/business card games

traid

you will find following emotions always attached to any triad or mafia

greed

fear

hatred

self learning and inspiring

teacher can only teach you what they know

good teachers should inspire their students for self learning and find ways to solve their own and others' problems

teenaids' coming event 1227

聖誕快樂 一'箱'情緣

2009-12-27 (日) 2-6pm

節目:神秘精彩遊戲，茶點

地點:GM Kitchen (旺角)

彌敦道594-596號旺角新城8樓

報名資格:

開心同學會會員，每一會員可帶同

1-2位非會員參加

收費: 會員 $130 非會員 $140 名額: 40人

報名方法︰現在開始，先電郵或致電Ann報名，

然後將費用存入觸動戶口 (中國銀行012-808-000281-37)

入數紙傳真或電郵給Ann (touch@touchk.hk) 或 可以寄支票到本中心

(支票抬頭: 觸動輔導中心或Touch Counseling Centre)，支票背面及給我們的入數收據需註明:

報名人姓名，電話號碼及一箱情緣

http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=222809341368

Tel: 2116 5733 ， Fax: 2870 3623

觸動輔導中心

開心同學會第七擊籌委啟

atty ching, touch counseling, touch theatre and teenaids

blog of atty ching

http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/attychingtw

atty on air rthk

http://www.rthk.org.hk/rthk/radio1/hkfootpath/20090830.html

touch counseling centre

http://www.touchhk.hk/

teenaids

http://www.teenaids.org.hk/

teenaids on facebook

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=51135348136

teenaids' events photos

http://picasaweb.google.com/mm2228/Teenaids#

touch theatre

http://www.touchhk.hk/TT/

log onto http://www.m2228.com/

and connect to mm2228@gmail.com for more info

IQ negative and EQ positive

IQ-negative

EQ-positve

people with IQ tends to think negatively and be negative

people with EQ tends to think positively and be positive

take a step back

take a step back and the world would become much more wonderful

problems from choices

problems are generated from 'too many choices'

if we don't own anything, don't have anything, problems would not be there

a fire starts because we have something to burn with

in the city we have to think hard on what to wear, what to eat, what to buy, which friend to call and meet

think! if we have no clothes to wear, no food to eat, no money to buy, no friend to call or meet in the first place...where are all the problems gone...haha

so the poorest place on earth is where people find least worries and found most happiness

that's why the more we have and the richer we are the more unhappy and the more dissatisfy we becomes

all we need to do is to unload...unload what we have thats when our greed, our hatred, our fear and our problems be solved

starts with labelling ends with none

labelling

correct labelling is key to a healthy mental and physical status

positive and encouragement

positive and encouragement belongs to someone with EQ

gain vs lose

if you gain something you bound to lose something

if you lose something you bound to gain something

everyone is gifted

everyone is gifted in some way, shape or form

key is to observe and find our gift and develop it well

create chances

you can either

wait for chances that appear in you life or

get your ass in gear and create chances for yourself

IQ vs EQ

IQ+EQ=wise

IQ on its own=clever, smart but moody because their complicated thoughts cannot be expressed and shared with others due to very few people understands what they are thinking, impatient, tends to take advantage over others

people with IQ has many worries, many problems to worry about, the higher the IQ the more worry and problems appears in front of you

EQ: the higher the EQ the more we are able to solve problems

people with IQ is problems generator, people with EQ is problems solver

of course if you have both IQ and EQ would be best but if for me i would put EQ before IQ

EQ:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_quotient

IQ:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IQ

now becomes past

do not live in the past

do not calculate the future

"focus on what you are doing"

now does not exist because now becomes the past

champion

the effort between the champion and number two can be miles different

the more effort and under the right conditions and training methods will bring us success

in Buddhist way there are endless before and after life, every single thing we do in every single life counts

a tree is one metre taller than the other one, the root underground is several times more

a boxing champion is the one got punch most as rocky says: life is about how much you can take and keep moving forward, thats how winning is done...

no free lunch

when things are on offer, on discount vouchers or on promotions i would ignore them in most cases

my theory is:

i do not want to take advantage over anyone

i do not want anyone taken any advantage of me

always remember the old saying:

there is no free lunch...

gifted education

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=3169&langno=2

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=2377&langno=2

Education Department Hong Kong

http://www.edb.gov.hk/

best vs worst

the best person has some bad points

the worst person has some good points

key is to find the good points in everyone and develop them well

gifted and rebel

there is a strong connection between gifted and rebel

the more gifted the person is the more rebel they are

the early age of gifted person's form is like jelly-not yet shaped

they are shaped in a whatever shape container we put them in-by that i mean if they are lead to do positive things they when become positive and if they are lead to think negative so they will too but their gift and talent will not be affected

their gift can be either covered and forgotten or found and developed

it is important to find and develop our gift in our early age, the earlier we correctly found and develop our gift the less we will hit our heads against hard walls and getting a permanant damage and lead to life, mood and society problems

different kinds of seeds needs different conditions to grow in and needs to be kept in different kinds of environment to prevent it from rotting, if we can identify the type of seeds and give them the right factors and conditions, i am sure the seed would turn into a healthy plant which will supply us with endless fruits and seeds in the age to come...

have said all that-I believe strongly in: ' we are all gifted in some way, shape or form, the key is to find it and develop it and we can be happy and successful'

Hong Kong Public and Private Hospitals

http://www.gov.hk/tc/residents/health/hosp/index.htm

http://www.gov.hk/en/residents/health/hosp/index.htm

Donald Tsang-Chief Executive of Hong Kong

http://www.ceo.gov.hk/

give

I am thanksgiving that i can give

I give hope to my family and friends and people that meets me

I give up my health for doctors to feed their family

I give up my time and energy for social workers to earn their meal

I give up my money for clothes, food, accommodation and transportation and every cent i spent is to keep the economy growing, keep the world moving, keep the people living, keep everyone feeding

The more able i am the more i give

If i am not here many will suffer

So i thank myself that i can give

living

I once asked myself what is the meaning of life and what is the purpose of living

There are many answers after thinking hard for a while

I live/exist because there are lots of lives in need of my helping hand

I enjoy the process of living

I enjoy doing what i am doing

I enjoy being an ass...joking

I enjoy the the disabilities, the challenges, the difficulties and the game of life

The purpose of my existance is to help every single living thing to become Buddha and to "empty the hell out"...literally

Hope heaven won't become to crowded...haha

Fruit

Fruit of thought cannot be expressed

Well expressed is not fruit of thought

Fine line

There is a fine line draw between genius and lunatic

some says the 'line' is non existance

Why

'Why am I doing what I am doing', I once asked myself

'Because I am doing what I am doing' is the answer

Love

Love solves most problems

but

Most problems comes from love

Level

Talk to people above your level and you will learn

Talk to people at the same level as you and you will find resonance

Talk to people below your level and you will waste your time

Make sense

Things that make sense will work

Considerate

Think and see from others point of view will bring you success