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Saturday, December 19, 2009

opponent point of view

別人笑我忒瘋癲

 桃花塢裡桃花庵,桃花庵下桃花仙;
桃花仙人種桃樹,又摘桃花賣酒錢。
酒醒只在花前坐,酒醉換來花下眠;
半醒半醉日復日,花落花開年復年。
但願老死花酒間,不願鞠躬車馬前;
車塵馬足富者趣,酒盞花枝貧者緣。
若將富貴比貧賤,一在平地一在天;
若將貧賤比車馬,他得驅馳我得閒。
別人笑我忒瘋癲,我笑別人看不穿;
不見五陵豪傑墓,無花無酒鋤做田。

both sides of the coin

every matter has 2 sides and they are pros and cons

wrong none, wrong once

some faults once is too much

learn from experience

remember what you did wrong the first time and correct the faults in the second time round

multiple intelligence

intelligence training toys and games

invest

rich me

poor me

taunton invest

taunton big spender/wise spender

trading/business card games


traid

you will find following emotions always attached to any triad or mafia

greed

fear

hatred


Thursday, December 17, 2009

self learning and inspiring

teacher can only teach you what they know

good teachers should inspire their students for self learning and find ways to solve their own and others' problems

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

teenaids' coming event 1227


聖誕快樂 一'箱'情緣

2009-12-27 (日) 2-6pm

節目:神秘精彩遊戲,茶點

地點:GM Kitchen (旺角)

彌敦道594-596號旺角新城8樓

報名資格:

開心同學會會員,每一會員可帶同

1-2位非會員參加

收費: 會員 $130 非會員 $140 名額: 40人

報名方法︰現在開始,先電郵或致電Ann報名,

然後將費用存入觸動戶口 (中國銀行012-808-000281-37)

入數紙傳真或電郵給Ann (touch@touchk.hk) 或 可以寄支票到本中心

(支票抬頭: 觸動輔導中心或Touch Counseling Centre),支票背面及給我們的入數收據需註明:

報名人姓名,電話號碼及一箱情緣

http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=222809341368

Tel: 2116 5733 , Fax: 2870 3623

觸動輔導中心

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blog of atty ching

atty on air rthk

touch counseling centre


teenaids on facebook

teenaids' events photos

touch theatre

and connect to mm2228@gmail.com for more info

Monday, December 14, 2009

IQ negative and EQ positive

IQ-negative

EQ-positve

people with IQ tends to think negatively and be negative

people with EQ tends to think positively and be positive

take a step back

take a step back and the world would become much more wonderful

problems from choices

problems are generated from 'too many choices'

if we don't own anything, don't have anything, problems would not be there

a fire starts because we have something to burn with

in the city we have to think hard on what to wear, what to eat, what to buy, which friend to call and meet

think! if we have no clothes to wear, no food to eat, no money to buy, no friend to call or meet in the first place...where are all the problems gone...haha

so the poorest place on earth is where people find least worries and found most happiness

that's why the more we have and the richer we are the more unhappy and the more dissatisfy we becomes

all we need to do is to unload...unload what we have thats when our greed, our hatred, our fear and our problems be solved

Sunday, December 13, 2009

starts with labelling ends with none

labelling

correct labelling is key to a healthy mental and physical status

positive and encouragement

positive and encouragement belongs to someone with EQ

gain vs lose

if you gain something you bound to lose something

if you lose something you bound to gain something

everyone is gifted

everyone is gifted in some way, shape or form

key is to observe and find our gift and develop it well


create chances

you can either

wait for chances that appear in you life or

get your ass in gear and create chances for yourself


IQ vs EQ

IQ+EQ=wise

IQ on its own=clever, smart but moody because their complicated thoughts cannot be expressed and shared with others due to very few people understands what they are thinking, impatient, tends to take advantage over others

people with IQ has many worries, many problems to worry about, the higher the IQ the more worry and problems appears in front of you

EQ: the higher the EQ the more we are able to solve problems

people with IQ is problems generator, people with EQ is problems solver

of course if you have both IQ and EQ would be best but if for me i would put EQ before IQ

EQ:

IQ: