形容他的行為給他聽 就是停止惡行最佳法

形容他的行為給他聽
就是停止惡行最佳法

人總喜歡在誠實的地方當虛偽的人 又總喜歡在虛偽的地方當誠實的人

人總喜歡在誠實的地方當虛偽的人
又總喜歡在虛偽的地方當誠實的人

自由 就是 不理後果 瀟灑 即是 不付責任

自由 就是 不理後果
瀟灑 即是 不付責任

何以不貪? how to stop greed?

何以不貪? how to stop greed?
有無人知? anybody knows?

心安小福星

心安小福星

互相溝通
欣賞珍惜
尊重信任
發揮價值

互相俾機會表現 發揮 發展

減少控制
減少要求
減少貪慾
安守本份

抗拒屈辱
建立自信
發展所長

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大時代巨輪滾到現在 在香港這片樂土上 每人也各有各忙 彷彿巳遺忘了自己的passion 與理想, 在我們心中的海闊天空 就只有偶巳與知音分享 才有活現的空間…

大時代巨輪滾到現在 在香港這片樂土上 每人也各有各忙 彷彿巳遺忘了自己的passion 與理想, 在我們心中的海闊天空 就只有偶巳與知音分享 才有活現的空間…

Communication is about expressing and understanding feelings.

Communication is about expressing and understanding feelings.

Unconditional love

There is no unconditional love not even with God and us

Imagine if the price for God helping you is he will turns into devil after helping you he would not do it

By helping us, he feels good, that’s a condition and the thing he pay his price of helping us for

Many say why I do everything for him or her let alone family members, friends or even someone we don’t know and he or she treat me so bad and I keep going pouring out my unconditional love, oh I am so great or I am so silly

You are not silly nor great, you are just greed for the feeling for feeling good or like the feeling of others praying or praising you or laying a pity on you

So anything and everything is a deal, feeling is priceless, if you greed for good feeling, some even pay their life for it but we often forget neglect and don’t aware the good feeling we get, we only know what they give, never realise what we get and that’s tragedy

It is fair and it is square

My dear friend and my dear God.

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Chinese families is very poor in communication

From mood problems to world problems starts with poor communication

Learning is about communicating well

Communication is about messages going in and out of our brain

Peace of mind is about communication

Peace is about communication

Happiness is about communication

Mental illness and cancer due to lack of communication skills

Suicide due to no communication

Every soul needs to learn to communicate to be free

Insults disrespect and discrimination originates from poor communication

Some thinks they are good in communication but actually they don’t have a clue in communication

Communication is about problem solving

Communication consist of questions and answers

No one can survive without communication

Respect and faith is the best form of communication

Thankfulness and appreciation is good for communication

Poor communication makes us moody and frustrated

Good communication makes us relax and enjoy

Destruct and self destruct due to poor communication

We are linked together by communication

Brainwashing is one way communication

One way communication drives us mad

One way communication is not sustainable

Only fools use one way communication

One way communication is negative and destructive

Dual way communication is respectful healthy and constructive

Friends is a good role for communication

Failure due to poor communication

Every successful person are brought up by people with good communications skills and with good heart

If you are good in communications you have a good heart

If you like communication, you love yourself and the world

You would suffer if you don’t know how to communicate

Success is about communication

Praying is about communication

Media is about communication

Business is about communication

Arts is about communication

IT is about communication

Politics is about communication

Every soul needs communication

Anything and everything needs communication

Illnesses is about poor communication

Medical care needs good communication

Education needs good communication

Relationship needs good communication

Friendship supports by communication

Transport is a form of communication

Computer and telephone is a tool for communication

Audio video photo and text are different forms of communication

We are a tool for communication

We cannot live without communication

Meaning and purpose of life is about communication

何以不貪得安？

何以不貪得安？
明天理
信神修佛何需貪
一切皆緣
有緣則來
無緣則去
不需也不可強求
隨緣隨遇則安

How to end greed?

How to end greed?

If you greed, you are not peace

If you peace, you are not greed

We are sensitive to different things starting from birth, when we become too sensitive on certain things and it severely affect our daily life, this is call ill and some seek treatments educations and further solutions

Communication social and interpersonal skills is key to any souls

Autism gifted super high IQ and mental patients lack communication skills makes them lost touch to and misunderstood by the majority

Communication is about in and out of messages from and to our brain

We get insults disrespects and discrimination if we don’t know how to communicate

Communication can bring us good family friends relationship and career and everything we need

Communication is key for learning and for explore and exploding our own inner gifts and strengths

Communication is about thankfulness and appreciation

With a thankful heart and appreciate everyone every matter and everything around you, you will be peace

Peace is not to control

Control forms anxiety

Control is greed

Greed is not peace

Peace is having no greed

The less you control, the more peace have

The more you control, the less peace you have

Greed comes with fear and hatred

Fear and greed

Personally was a perfectionist

I greed

I fear

I hate

I look for perfect

I need to win ten out of ten first hit

So I never do anything because I fear of losing

I wait till the best moment to make the 100% success hit but it never comes so I keep waiting and rotting

Anything include successful relationship and successful career is not 0 or 100% win or lose success or fail

It is a natural flow of fate

Believe in bite size

Believe in bit by bit

Nothing ever comes and goes 100%

Everything comes and goes gradually

We need to build up bit by bit

For good things, never say it too little and not do it

For bad things, never say it too little and do it

Baby learning theory

0-3 years learns everything quickest

3-8

8-12

13-18

18-24

24-30

Slows fragile non flexible and moulded along the age

Our biggest enemy is ourselves, our own fear, fear of losing, failing and getting hurt and not believing we can recover from injury and not believing we can achieve.

Baby learning is by all senses

Personally hate school learning especially grammar.

I love baby learning especially in languages with both success in English and mandarin.

When I see my mate james, he is pointing to something round in red color and he created sound in his throat and mouth shape as I observe and listen ‘red ball’

So I recorded his sound waves and mouth shape motions movements videos in my brain

Next time I see the same color and shape thing, I recall these info in my brain

These info in my brain send replica orders to my throat and mouth to produce same sounds and motions…red ball

This is how I learn languages quickly

But key is you need to find a friend that would not say you are wrong

Your mate must be keep on chatting with you as flows and never correct you because if he/she stops to correct you or repeat, your confidence will shatter.

Intuition直覺

Intuition直覺

Intuition is when we sense and receive messages

Signals sends to our brain

Brain calculates for best solutions to react and response

Then action response and react

All these step happen in millionth of a second in which we are not quick enough to realise or aware or believe it is true.  

Baby talk

Own a pet or owning a baby

Most people would use baby talk and pet talk to satisfy their own desire of being a control freak

I am adult

I am master

I am owner

I own you

I teach you

I train you

Listen to me

I am right

You are my pet

You are my baby

I shape you

I control you

You need to be how I want you to be

I know what I am doing and you don’t

I am better than you, although the world seems tough but at least I am tougher than you

I protect you

I have value

I have purpose in life

I am stronger than at least you

I am more success at least compare to you

I am clever at least compare to you

The truth is:

You are living in your dream and you drag your pet and your baby’s life along into the dark hole of your life created by generations of your family causing endless social problems to the world

You need to LET GO

Let go to set yourself and your love ones free.

LET GO

Obstacles

Obstacles

Learning obstacles may seen as one of the most disastrous obstacles in everyone of us especially in childhood.

We are all unique

We all have different gifts and obstacles

We are sensitive to different things

We all learn differently

We all have different learning patterns

We all have different learning styles

We all need to tailor made to measure our learning style to learn efficiently

We need to find out and know well our own gifts and obstacles in order to learn and grow happily

We need to observe and discover our best learning styles in order to enjoy learning and development

Learning should be a relaxed enjoyment

Learning should not be stress frustrated despair pressurized nor destructive or negative

We start to find out best way of learning out of school

Traditional schools is a chips factory but we are all potatoes

We want to be hand cut chips

We need to be respected but firstly we have to respect ourselves by putting away our greed

Schools is the graveyard for creativity and innovation dreams and free thinking

We need to enjoy learning and enjoy whatever we do.

If we hate something, DROP IT, QUIT IT, SLAP IT, SLAM IT, DUCK IT, FUCK IT

FULL STOP

Relationship

Relationship

Relationship is not ON/OFF button

Relationship is the Sun, the Moon, the Stars and the Sky.

Love is not Yes/No answer

Love is not Win/Lose game

Love is not control

Love is not to own

Love is not nervous stress anxiety

Love is not only for sex

Love is not a plan

Love is not one way street

Love is a relaxed comfort and peaceful feeling you enjoy

Love is to give out a relaxed comfort and peaceful feeling

Love comes slowly gradually unexpectedly

Love comes and goes naturally

Love never comes suddenly

Love is learn to give

Flexible

Flexible

Adapt n flexible are good but also means lack of confidence

Winners has strong adapt n flexibility try their best but key is to know when to give up n let go n not to take on others responsibilities till you breakdown or drop dead

Confidence can save you also can kill you

Confidence means you believe in yourself n believe in everything you do is absolutely right

Its lucky you got the direction right with confidence but what if you get it wrong and you still think you are right and you are in power or in control, you will kill everyone in your family or in your team.

Learning

Learning

Learning in school and university meant a great bored and pain to me even in the UK

Reason I found out after almost five years I left education is everyone including meself has gifts and obstacles in our personality and life include learning styles and ways

We could not exactly call these illness coz illness is just a word to describe certain so call minorities in which there is no fixed sample numbers to state what is majority and what is minority

Everyone is unique

We are all unique

We all have our own unique gifts and obstacles

Let not praise too much when we found something good nor blame too much when we found something bad coz it is just as it is

No one is normal

No one is majority

No one is winner

It is all relative

When we do not control by labels

That’s when we are in peace

We follow rules because we are greed

When we greed we are not settled and have no peace

Want peace?

Lessen the in and out labels and messages from our sense to our brain

When messages lessen and die down and the dirt settled at the bottom, the clean clear water on top is available for us to enjoy

It is peace.

Communicatist 溝通專家 馬碩鴻

Communicatist
溝通專家 馬碩鴻
Matthew ma the communicatist
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