Shan 孩子，请按照你的节奏前进！

孩子，请按照你的节奏前进！
家长们总是不停的催促的孩子，催着孩子“快点快点”、“赶紧做作业”、“赶紧学习”。孩子每天生活在家长催促之中，成为最基本和理所当然的生活状态。好像只有在孩子学走路的时候，家长有着极大的耐心，那个时候，家长总是鼓励孩子慢慢来。但当他们学会了走路，家长总是希望他们能快点走，甚至会有大人都忘了孩子会比我们走得慢，大步流星地在前面走，使孩子被迫一溜小跑地跟着。
        家长的催促无疑是打乱了孩子自己的节奏，结果多半是越催越慢。通常，家长也是自己在先着急的情况下，开始催促孩子，传递的也是自己的紧张和焦虑。其实，教育就是一种慢的艺术，欲速则不达。
        家长们总希望孩子按照自己的想法、节奏行事。其实，大人与孩子的生活节奏、生理节奏以及生命节奏都是大不相同的。孩子有自己的节奏，对他们而言，感觉最舒服、最顺畅、最有利的就是顺应自然的生理节奏。如果孩子的生活节奏过快，会影响身体的激素分泌，对身体和心理都会造成损害。

经常被打乱节奏的孩子，一般都会有早熟、易烦躁、耐性差的特征，或截然相反，表现为反应迟缓、自我压抑、对某些事物过分依赖。

家长除了要有耐心之外，还应该避免因为害怕孩子慢而替孩子去做很多事情。孩子是因为自己的不熟练所以才慢，如果家长没有从培养他们自己动手能力的角度考虑，就很可能去帮孩子做，这样只会剥夺孩子自己学习的机会。
家长应该尝试和孩子一起放慢这样做不仅事关家庭生活品质，而且对孩子的成长至关重要。孩子终究是要长大，他们也不可能永远按照自己的节奏生活，适应大家公认的某个时间标准便是他们在社会化的过程中必须完成的任务。而现在，家长只需要让孩子用自己喜欢的方式玩耍，以促进他把事物形象化、概念化，从而区分想象与现实，言语与行动。这一切能够使他发现自己并了解他人，最终形成对自我以及世界的认知。

傻吓傻吓又一世，懵吓懵吓又一生

傻吓傻吓又一世，懵吓懵吓又一生

fear industries 230616

fear industries 230616

fear for unpeace and pursue for peace are the yin yang engine that keep the world going but would trash mankind ultimately

all businesses, deals and exchange are for profit, using fear and peace as a tool

clients are played around between fear and peace and drops out cash from their pockets

US is a place originates fear, industries like insurance, health and beauty, education certifications, laws and legal, IT updates, fashion, social glam, hotels and travel, luxury entertainments, everyone racing for the carrot of peace and under stick of fear

personally major in business and management, so for deals and exchange i love to discover and recover

china is twenty years behind Hong Kong, if Hong kong buddies visit china, beware of fooled by tricked that chinese play where appears in Hong Kong twenty years ago

the fool of US is displayed in US corner shop chain giant 7eleven

some years ago my relative from china visit us in Hong Kong, we passed by 7eleven corner shop and he just wonders and ask, i have never seen any of these products and services in china, do you hong kong people need these?

i explained to him by grabbing him some snacks, then he feel thirsty because of msg then he grabs a drink and ice-cream, he then feel sick i then show him some pills and medicine on the shelf, he then say, i need 7 eleven

US industries is pretty much a big scale, we see friends on facebook having nice stuff, we want to experience and get, we need to race to consume our cash otherwise we are a loner and left behind, we fear, we fear to be alone

for health and beauty, we fear illness and ugly, medical services advertise by creates fear

we feed of disgusting and ugly but it is a ghost deep in our heart, we need face, we need to be number one, we need to be better than others and give up your cash

you love your love ones, then give us cash to show you love them

if i earn a million per month and i use half a million per month to purchase services and products for me mum but never give her a cent or any care personally, am i her son?

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when me mum make me angry, my new saying is:

you are not my mum, my mum would not treat me as such

you are not my xx, my xx would not treat me as such

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pyramid selling 220616

pyramid selling 220616

pyramid selling is evil and created by devil

the only thing right and wrong about pyramid selling is its legal under the law

pyramid selling has brought many and plenty relationship to an end and use relationship as a tool for profit

mum went to a course about diet and ms fung was fishing for clients there

fung was a member of i26 which practice pyramid selling

mum treat fung as a friend but fung treat mum as cash

fung was a person with no friends but after she pursue pyramid selling, she was calling downlines and clients round the clock creating an illusion for herself

fung has over 10,000 clients, when you signed the contract with her, she disappears and you can never get through to her

but when fung retire from pyramid selling, nobody needs her and she has too much free time for boredom

so when fung is on pyramid selling, there is an illusion for herself that she has plenty friends but they are clients and some silly ones like me mum that appreciates her effort and money

when fung is on the job, she has no time for friends and for fun

when fung is off the job, nobody appreciates her, so she sticks with the job for like jumping for one company to another on pyramid selling

business is business, profit is what only matters to ones in pyramid selling and in business

me mate is from an insurance family, his family members are top managements in AIA

the only problem is he finds his family only cares about cash with no care for him

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money 220616

the problem of money is it can be save up

for anything that can be save up then its no safe, the more the better

if i killed an animal and enjoys it, if i kill ten at once, nine will rot, so i kill one whenever i need and share with me mate

men created money and we turn evil, men created exchange system, with money and shares that can save up and be gone in a click

mankind is foolish by creating money, money make us fear

from kid we race to learn and fear we cannot make money to feed ourselves when older

when we work we find no matter how hard we work we get nowhere

when we old we find we wasted our life in racing under fear for what? for money? for the most basic feeling of peace and fear

for computer if US leader press a button every electronic systems and data files around the world is freezed and encoded, only he who has the decode

we use computer is working and building on loose sand, its an illusion, no matter how hard we try its gone in a button just like a giant squashing an ant

computer created for and by fear, and the fear is rolling snowball, getting bigger and bigger till it bang into hard rock and turn into dust

we find we wasted our life in racing under fear for what? not for money? not for profit? for the most basic feeling of fear and peace.

fear record and peace 210616

fear record and peace 210616

record and recording data is key for peace

problems is when someone has exception and exemption then fear would arise

if everyone’s actions and behaviors is recorded at anytime and can be trace and track then there would be no crime

by crime i mean ones that originates the violence but missed out on punishment

dull criminal easily trigger anger by lawyers

dull patients easily trigger anger by doctor

because both criminal and patients is poor on communications, they are smart but not wise

if we record all sessions between doctors and patients

if we record all interactions between all parties in law cases

if we record all behaviour of every deals brokers agents and everyone that is in deals and transactions

we would if everyone is evil

and majority is stupidly dull

they think they chat secretly on the phone

they think no one can trace track and proof their actions

actually ones with a bit of tech skills can monitor all their communications

what a stupid silly prick just chatted on they phone of how to trap their bud, seconds later having a beer with them

are they a fool or are you a fool

the best way is to publish everyone’s communication

everyone’s communications actions and behaviours must be  recorded and display to the world 

everyone what they created, sparkled, learned earned healed

no one would trap others, no crime no secrets, no need politics no need businesses because we are all true

no greed no fear no hatred

no swiss bank, no jail, no dark food, no dark medicines, no traps of beauty,entertainments

no dark deal, all communications is published, everyone is fair, everyone is honest, no dark leaders, no corruption

everyone is clean and clear.

feardom freedom kingdom 200616

feardom freedom kingdom 200616

the worst thing for souls is fear

the best thing for souls is peace

souls would fear if they have a chance to lose their freedom

jails and hospitals are the two main places to lose freedom and create feardom

learn to heal can help us reach peace

greed fear and hatred originates from fear

when we fear we would greed and hate and we would have a better chance on losing our freedom

for each kingdom and for each kings and his fuckers and helpers to expliot freedom, someone has to pay their bill

kings are making minority fear and make them lose freedom to success his kingdom

if king are making majority fear then the king would lose freedom

so its like a rugby ball, any and every system its like a rugby ball

top ten percent controls the middle 80% and bottom 10% pays the bill of feardom and freedom

the bottom 10% are the sensitive ones in which when they lose freedom then the king is alerted not to persist, if so more and more people lose freedom and his power would end

the difference of top and bottom ten is the factor, the factor of knowing self’s ability and know when and where to stop.

緣本是空

緣本是空

Anchor glory

Anchor glory

we are men/ wonder of mankind 190616 learn to heal

we are men/ wonder of mankind 190616

life is pain for all souls

regrets worries and unpeace

peace can never be reached

but these ups and downs makes us men and men and mankind has many and plenty priviledges 

when we ill and take medicine, we would relieve

when we cold and turn on heater, we warmth

we we hot and cools by swimming, its fun

pains gives us priviledges to joy

if there is no pain, there is no joy

no regrets no improvements

no worries no motive

no pain no peace

peace is relative than pain

pain is the origins of peace

if pain disappear, peace disappear too

we have clothes food house 

what we need is peace

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learn to heal

we need to learn healing solutions from kid

we need fun ways of letting our kids explore solutions to illnesses

learn earn heal are thought to be three stages of life

but actually is only healing matter

learn to heal enable us to solution for problems

solutions are for problems

problems are illnesses that keeps us away from peace

heal is to minimise pain and maximise peace

learn to heal

learn solution for problems

learn to minimise pain and maximise peace

so we can sustain ourselves and earn

if we dont know healing, we are feeding doctors

no matter how much money we earn, we need peace

if we learn to heal, we fulfil learn earn heal

if we know what to eat and drink, intake and outgo and rest can keep us peace, we would have no illness

all the crime extreme, lost freedom originates from illness and unpeace

if we all learn to heal from kid

if the criminal know to heal they would not be crimimal

if we know how to heal, we would not suiside

all the negative destructive originates from imbalance of health

if we learn to heal we all balance, no crime no room for junk food and plastic that cause cancer

no room for dark pills, drinks drugs gamble sex no room for them

we like those bad hobbies because we are imbalance

there are too many junk goods in the marketplace

we are unhappy so we alchol, we sex, gamble, crime

unhappy because we take wrong food and drink and feel pain

if we know how and what to take food and drink

learn to heal is key and base for peace. 

swing both ways 180616

swing both ways 180616

we need to ask questions, funny questions that makes complicated things turns stupidly easy and bright to understood

why is there a light bulb in US museum is continuously lighting for over a hundred years since its made, and other bulbs only have hours lifetime?

is it we are unable to make eternal bulbs or we are unwilling to?

a tales tell where pills and ancient medicines solved the eternal health problems of men and can keep mankind in comfort with the most basic and common food and drinks with least cost but for minority selfish profits we choose to bury such data and publish medicines that do harm to organs and cause links of sideeffect illnesses and charge the public on every bit of pain, keeping them painfully alive for getting their pocket money

technology is very easy to develop to the extreme but why we publish bits here and there, have a fart and everyone say wow, have a shit and everyone jumps in laughter and joy-all because of selfish foolish profit

many fools are fear and greed, they only see the minor profit in front of them, polluting the world for pennies but they forget they are living in the same world and the cash they earn can only buy them rotten and polluted goods and services

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education is trashing gifts 

we all have unique gifts, why we need to learn others gifts

we can never be exactly the same as others, no matter how hard we try

but we can be unique without trying 

we should encourage uniqueness and say no to copy cats

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Sparkle creator

Sparkle creator

Talk得寫得又做得

Talk得寫得又做得

Notes tips mem

當你恨一個人時，請記住或許曾經她為你付出過，其實一切恨，全源自愛

難還容易，因為專注

未知是最刺激

有如銀行

創造能力，有如陽光空氣與水份，有時不值分文，缺時比一切也貴

寫apps practice n apply 有一日可被電腦取代，創造點子永遠只有靈能做到，創造是生命的特質

Peace eternal

最後點滴 peace eternal 09100316

為何智商越高越容易遇到心病？

凡人事物，始終陰陽，陽中有陰，陰中有陽，周而復始，生生不息，合規律生，違規律滅，平常之人，達一目標，已經滿足，一步一步，走到終點。

失常之人，智商極高，他們能夠，同一時間，輕而易舉，達多目標，但這生出，致命盲點，誤導他們，自以為可，一網打盡，一擊全中，但因陰陽，絕不容許，全陰全陽，他們不甘，不能全中，而生心病。

解決辦法，就是明白，不能全中，而安於在，第二之位，金字塔頂，留一缺口，符合陰陽，才能恆久，平安自在。

中庸之道，物極必反

大智若愚

知足常樂，順其自然

孤陰不生，獨陽不長，陰陽相生，中和為貴

Sulai

還差一點

貪與貧，差一點

為何高智商人仕會有心病？一般人能達到一個目的已經很滿足，於是一步一步走到人生終點，智商高人仕能輕易達到大部分目的目標，但其致命盲點是其以為可一網打盡不留一個，最終hang機/ hangover，心病不安源全因為不甘心不能一步到位一撃KO, 最後像兔子站在終點之前不安生病，一步一步才是平安之道。

一個一個，不留一個

能拿一件，遺留一件

能拿一件：心安

遺留一件：不安

是否每時？是否每處？是否每人？

是否全部？

不是全部

它們不代表全部

fear system respect faith and appreciation 170616

fear system respect faith and appreciation 170616

power of souls originates from fear

fear is a fool and a tool for profit

respect faith appreciation cherishness communication and values is solution for fear greed hatred 

peace is oppose to fear greed and hatred

human civilised system eg society, law, health and education system is created by and for fear

violence and extreme is created by the system

ever been to some houses where you bump into corners and tripped over by legs and cables-why its the creators fault

some house no more how naughty you are, you would only feel comfort and peace

the law system is created by law experts and lawyers, would they create a system for themselves to be overlade 

would the society creator create a system to benefit the public where the creator is minority?

would the medical experts creates hospital that are empty for them not have enough money to pay their own dinners

would the education specialise creates an education system where you can learn what you need in the shortest time and get themselves unemployed

do not shoot me and order me not to bleed

there can be peace but we do not want it

we say we want it but we don’t

because if everything goes peace and in order, we all lost our job, no one work and no dinner to eat, everyone die

so we need to fool the fools by saying we need peace, health education clean so and so excuses all for profits

we fool ones fooler than ourselves

we create problems and provide solutions in exchange for dinners

everything and everyone is originates from fear

we fear to die so we eat drink and breath

we fear to extinct so we have sex and breed

if we appreciate and faith in what we experience, we would be closer to peace.

Wish ones make me feel bad experience what n how I experienced 令我難受的人，願你們經歷，我所經歷

Wish ones make me feel bad experience what n how I experienced 

令我難受的人，願你們經歷，我所經歷

當你恨一個人時，請記住或許曾經她為你付出過，其實一切恨，全源自愛

當你恨一個人時，請記住或許曾經她為你付出過，其實一切恨，全源自愛

computer 130616

computer 130616

original data creations are created by computers and digital data devices everyday by everyone

we need to utilise these creations in bulk

many apps are failed because you cannot utilise files in bulk

we need an app where we press minimum buttons minimum input and can utilise maximum output

every creation file is made up of factors, we need a find and found function in factors in bulk in groups 

we need to put everything in different factors timelines where timelines can mix and match

files are in timeline calendar clock and can be find and found in all and single and different factors

actually factors find and found can pin point any file

eg matthew ma taunton school 1995 and you will pin point me

any and every original data creations are in factors like creator, performer, time, place, instruments, media etc

we have banks of original data creations with different copyrights owner and by different creators

every digital device is a bank of data creations

we need to differentiate original data creations and data creations by creator, performer, time, place, instruments, media etc

we need to display files in different ways orders and systems with ghost images

one problem is we have plenty repeated files, what we need is to put different files in different folders and orders without duplicating files

we need to have options to display files timeline in calendars and clock and schedules with different creator, performer, time, place, instruments, media factors etc

locate creations locate files in maps, calendars, clocks, identities

locate places in map, locate time in timeline calendars and clocks, locate people in identities

one button one task endless files all done in bulk at once

one button group same factors one button changes 

actually all original data creations/ files must be kept safely with backups

the edited version is shared or sold

key is only the creator able to keep his/her original data creations and its backup safely

and backups and keeping must be done in most comfort way

a good system provide users with peace of mind and safety of heart with simple easy and peacefully get endless complicated work done in least steps and minimum  procedures

a bad system makes its users to turn round and round exhausted without getting anything done

we should learn from the hong kong MTR- mass transit railway, the one who created the MTR for hong kong has wisdom and we should learn from him for systems and network creations.

just do it simple 120616

just do it simple 120616

we love to procrastinate

just do it simple but we are souls

souls love to leave difficult things at last

whats more if we finish everything at once, there is no fun

procrastinate is fun in itself

if we have no task and nothing to procrastinate and nothing to look forward to

there is no hope faith and love.