accept and agree with yourself

accept and agree with who yourself is, what yourself is doing and the situation yourself is in and what happened to yourself is a key to success

物以類聚 grouping

everyone and everything that groups together then they must share common points and there must be some or many similarities between them

緣份

everything we do and everyone we meet, there must be a 緣份 in between

緣份 is what made i meet 'who and what' i meet and made i do what i do

pattern of mood and action

there is a pattern of our mood and action

if we want to change the way we act, we have to trace back to the origin of why we have that mood and trace back to the first time and in what situation and mood which we set this pattern in and why and what made we act like this in the first time and try to modify and change from there

what goes round comes round

因果報應

己所不欲 勿施於人

treat others as you like to be treated

mood, action and communication

we need to find out or explain our action sometimes

normally we act and without aware and knowing why we act so

we have to communicate with ourselves and people around us

try and find out and explain our action and when we trace back to the origin there's how you can change

many people misunderstand themselves and others and ran into many arguments and fights but if we understand ourselves and explain ourselves well and gives a reason for what we do then in most cases people would understand where you are coming from and they may even help you for what you do

so understanding your own act and communicate well is a key to success

反叛與自發性 Rebellion and spontaneity

when we teach or lead we need to spark off the spontaneity in our clients

the more we tell them what to do and instruct them what to do and tell them can or cannot do this and that the more rebel they become

the more rebel the less spontaneity

key is to spark off their spontaneity like spark off an oil tank and let them explode

never give them a fire and burn for them

all they need is a tiny spark in their oil tank, a tiny spark in the right place

failure and mistake

can you be a bigger failure and major mistake from

gates

buffett

lee

ho

shaws

tong

tsang

and last but not least

ma

if not cheer up

positive

think positively is one of the key to success

the result

experience is more important that the result in many cases

exp

experience from experiment

experiment with experience

figure game

spending everyday is a number game

learn how to earn and spend wisely is the key to success

wise

don't wanna be clever

don't wanna be smart

wanna be wise

think wisely

plan wisely

act wisely

make decisions wisely

earn wisely

spend wisely

baby oh behave wisely

imperfection

we have learn to accept imperfection in order to gain success

priorities

we have to put things in priorities and in orders of importance

delete the unimportant tasks and focus on the important ones

we have to give and take, give up the non importance to gain time and energy for the importance

bin the rubbish and we would have more space to breath and display the needed

tidy our closet, house and mind

think in others shoes

stand at others position and see if you feel good about how others treats you the way you would treats them

treats others as you would like to be treated

truth and real world

although we should have free thoughts and imagination but if we drift too far from the truth and the real world we may be lost in the wonder world of imagination and thoughts of the non existence

success is putting imaginations into practice

cameraman and model

a good cameraman can produce nice pictures whether the model is good or not

a good model can produce nice pictures whether the cameraman is good or not

enviroment

environment is the key to every problem, in order to solve problems the surrounding environment must change, by that i mean if a place is not suitable for yourself, leave and go somewhere else

find somewhere you feel comfortable and success will be along the way

if the setting of your computer desk or chair is bad then you bound to get injury of muscle and tendons, it is the environment, if you sit somewhere set up properly, the injury will recover and you can work comfortably and gain success easily

ability

the common point of all mental health patients is: they tried to do things beyond their ability

in another words, if they plan what they do well and only take on things within their ability then their illness would disappear

mental illness is the mind overload and it shuts down and blocks out any more incoming signals to protect itself from damaging and overheat

the truth is too tough for them so the brain decides not to take anymore orders and basically it gives up functioning and shuts down for a rest till the problem passed by and the pressure released then the brain would lift the barrier and function normally again