fell down gets up

In western families when a baby fell down they need to get up on their own

In chinese families when a baby fell down their parents would help them to get up

The result is western babies learns to walk quicker then chinese babies

To some extent living things are learning by doing, we tends to question and disbelieve in what we are told and we tends to test or try things out ourselves and learn from our experience.

Having said that many things we just cannot try because they are addictive or life risking but many things are also worth trying, worth testing out and worth learning by doing.

cost

a bottle of water cost nothing from the tab, cost ten bucks from a coffee shop, cost your life in the desert

Judgement base on experience

We make decisions and decide right or wrong base on what we seen, heard, smelt and felt in the past

In another words our action is controlled by our past experience

We have to try and look at a matter in many different points of view before a sensible decision can be made.

The fact is we got told most of the things we know and that we have not yet experienced them ourselves

The westerners got told terrorism is bad and that we must fight and beat terrorism, they never ask why terrorism existed, why would someone has nothing better to do and go and give up their valuable life and be a terrorist??? What make them do that???

The british and americans always felt so and so countries are suffering so we have to save them by sending soldiers there, but what the news have not told them is their own countries has many people that needs to take care of.

In a more adult way of looking at it is, why would someone use their own pocket money to help others where themselves is in deep debt, is there something they can get in return?

Actually the best help they can do to the world is to pay back all the debt and stop being so nosy.

messenger from above

i see myself as an messenger from above

i innovate lots of ideas everyday, many work and many doesn't, many got buried and many got fulfilled in practice

i like people to copy my ideas because i believe people would only copy good ideas and if my ideas got copied by others then my job as an messenger is done and that i have affected the world in a positive way

good man vs bad guy

when you are bad you tends to think everyone around you is bad and you always live in fear

but when you are honest and good to others you tends to think everyone around you is as honest and as good as yourself

you are the one to choose how you live your life

university

many parents forces their children to study, some kids forces themselves to study

some can't stand the pressure and lead to some bad habbits and put a lot of pressure on themselves

key is:

if something is bothering you-quit it

we all looking for a comfort life

we studying hard to get good results and we become workaholic

see those pity people working in large firms and big businesses, money and power never satisfy them, they always hunger for more.

we chinese have a word for those people, direct translation is 'hungry ghosts in hell where their throat is tiny as needle and tummy is big as a drum'

you can see people in africa and china and india the happy index is much higher than people in england and US

by happy i mean positive happiness, not the negative happiness gained by beating people in a football or basketball game and humiliating people and not by harming or hurting others physically and mentally to proof that you are a so called 'champion' or 'winner' to gain happiness

in china, india and africa, we are happy and thanksgiving to have water to drink or food to eat, happiness is very basic

but in UK or US people are happy for a short while by going shopping, a new i phone gives them a buzz, a text message from a mate gives them a buzz, but all these are build on taking advantages of other countries less able than themselves

its a shame and its a pity

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觀點與角度 Viewpoints and perspectives

If we stands at different points and look at the same matter or person in different viewpoints we would have different perspectives, outcomes and results to the same matter.

confidence and affect

people with less confidence always got affected by people with more confidence than themselves

accept and agree with yourself

accept and agree with who yourself is, what yourself is doing and the situation yourself is in and what happened to yourself is a key to success

物以類聚 grouping

everyone and everything that groups together then they must share common points and there must be some or many similarities between them

緣份

everything we do and everyone we meet, there must be a 緣份 in between

緣份 is what made i meet 'who and what' i meet and made i do what i do

pattern of mood and action

there is a pattern of our mood and action

if we want to change the way we act, we have to trace back to the origin of why we have that mood and trace back to the first time and in what situation and mood which we set this pattern in and why and what made we act like this in the first time and try to modify and change from there

what goes round comes round

因果報應

己所不欲 勿施於人

treat others as you like to be treated

mood, action and communication

we need to find out or explain our action sometimes

normally we act and without aware and knowing why we act so

we have to communicate with ourselves and people around us

try and find out and explain our action and when we trace back to the origin there's how you can change

many people misunderstand themselves and others and ran into many arguments and fights but if we understand ourselves and explain ourselves well and gives a reason for what we do then in most cases people would understand where you are coming from and they may even help you for what you do

so understanding your own act and communicate well is a key to success

反叛與自發性 Rebellion and spontaneity

when we teach or lead we need to spark off the spontaneity in our clients

the more we tell them what to do and instruct them what to do and tell them can or cannot do this and that the more rebel they become

the more rebel the less spontaneity

key is to spark off their spontaneity like spark off an oil tank and let them explode

never give them a fire and burn for them

all they need is a tiny spark in their oil tank, a tiny spark in the right place

failure and mistake

can you be a bigger failure and major mistake from

gates

buffett

lee

ho

shaws

tong

tsang

and last but not least

ma

if not cheer up

positive

think positively is one of the key to success

the result

experience is more important that the result in many cases

exp

experience from experiment

experiment with experience