poems on life by mat

明白苦處
欣賞長處

平安之法在於欣賞
痛苦之法在不欣賞

敏感人仕痛苦因
引導形容代表行
風過竹本不留聲
本來如是平常心

眾生皆有自己苦
也有自己之所長
安是明白眾生苦
和多欣賞眾生長

如若您想得平安
以下心法把弓藏
明白眾生之苦處
欣賞眾生之所長

山下又有一群鵝
薯聲被我趕落河
三個人仕放狗屁
還有一個未曾痾

如無朋友欣賞您
千萬不要lum到死
因為總有識貨人
知您價值俾得起

世上沒有為什麼
並無所謂嘆為何
此為心手皆無劍
莫為年月作初tal

自在沒形容代表
你我皆不是緊要
平安就是不尋找
大家齊來樂自搖

世上沒有對與錯
只知地球圓氹dor
如若問我為什麼
您我同是那樣傻

人生是一場遊戲
衰鬼一定預埋您

play games

play games

not computer games

playing different real life games with other kids helps kids to develop different parts of their brain

the naughtier the kid, the more successful he becomes when grown up

life is a game, if a kid plays well in games, means he can communicate with others and can accept failures

many games are spontaneous improvisation and made up there and then by creative imaginations

the more kids day dream, the softer the brain, the more flexible and adaptable be becomes

childhood play time is priceless to everyone of us, as parents, we need to let our children play and dream freely, just without harming self and others as the only rule 

as we grow up and the more we learn, we need to follow rules and culture our brain loses its sponge flexibility and we lost ourselves, we become part of the society 

ones who can communicate flexible and adapt are the ones who survive and succeed

mass values

mass values

mass values of the modern world is shaped by the media like news, tv and advertisements

a majority of these values we are being educated is targeted to lead us towards certain actions which benefits certain groups that place the advertisements 

in my village in china, a relative of mine lived over hundred years of age with perfect health till she passed away peacefully some months ago

she never really leave the village, the furthest she went is the nearby town

she was a farmer all her life, she live a simple daily life

she doesnt have a tv at home, no advertisements, no news, just her fields of greens, her farmhouse and her family

her life is peaceful and quiet, never have any luxury or excess dreams of greed fear or hatred

yet her life is luxury for everyone of us in the modern cities

its because her values is never the same as the modern mass values, she has her own life, never control by others.

style appreciation

style appreciation

tom visited for a solution for his weaknesses and impairments

the only solution is appreciation

all souls are different in all ways

no matter how you change there is always a positive and a negative side

fools changes

wise men appreciates

anything anyone and any matter is useful if you appreciate

life is about practicing our heart of appreciation

fools turn gold into rubbish by changing

wise men turn rubbish into gold by appreciating.

appreciation 170413

appreciation 170413

key to wisdom and happiness is appreciation

appreciation is what i learn in UK

appreciation is the dearest gift of life for me from the british from my teens

appreciate means we know other souls’ pains and difficulties and we pleasure for things happens on us from anyone 

every soul needs appreciation

it takes wisdom to appreciate

we found happiness when we appreciate

we appreciate when others appreciate us

appreciation builds confidence

appreciation is the dearest gift of life

appreciation cost nothing to give but means priceless to all souls to get

greed, fear, hatred, crime and addicts due to lack of true appreciation

appreciation makes us invincible

appreciation makes us healthy

the root of faith respect cherish values and communication is appreciation

appreciation can be physical mental psychological spiritual musical and many more

appreciation strengthen relationships

appreciation bring us together 

appreciation of the same interest are our classmates teammates workmates and soulmates

wonder world is full of appreciation

kindness generates from appreciation

appreciate whatever happens on us, whoever we meet, however we are is key to happiness.

appreciation

appreciation

we appreciate from time to time on people things n matters that appreciates us

any relationship needs appreciation

appreciation strengthens relationships

the basic of humanities bonds is appreciation

i appreciates different actresses and actors and so am i would appreciates by my fans

most of the appreciations from and to us is sank in bottom of our hearts

if we could show our appreciation to whom we appreciate, we would have more energy to carry on

everyone needs appreciation

lucky ones gets them just in time

unlucky ones just dont get them in time 

we cannot control who appreciates us

but we can start appreciates ourselves and others from now to peace ourselves and other souls

i appreciates writing because it can change lives

and so am i appreciates reading speaking and listening for the same reason.

day one reporter

day one reporter

from the tvb soaps personally always learnt important lessons of life

from today whenever i m in pain i feel proud, it is because i appreciate different idols and they all have same problems i am facing

i feel pain and have problems because i am human, i have my fans in life

my idols have their pains and problems and so am i and this is privilege of human and every living soul

though these pains and problems troubles us from day to day but we gain happiness from when they rest from troubling us temporarily and for that flashes of seconds we are full of happiness

happiness is not looking for anything

happiness is need nothing more and need nothing less

001a

溝通 

欣賞

珍惜

尊重

信任

有求便苦

何騙術行

因無求也

只要有求

被牽著走

不得自由

無欲無求

真正自由

有情無情皆在變

苦樂皆不恆久

聽自然

何強求

為情而學

天生才子多風流

有靈有情

有情有貪

有貪有求有煩惱

煩惱生苦

有靈有情 便有貪嗔癡罪苦

有情 便有苦

每coin有正有負

負反過來便正

苦反過來是樂

不安反過來便是安

萬物求平衡

眾生求安

Chance 機會

Black cat white cat

自信因無知

關係 訊息 出入平安

不比較 不形容 不代表

平衡 中庸 順其自然

思想 語言 行為 身心靈合一一致

欣賞自然 

發揮本性

重要嗎 值得嗎

介意 計較 認真 在乎嗎

識貨嗎

有心 道德 技巧

能力 運氣 要求

自在 平安 平衡

敏感模式

需要 溝通

安情貪求

黑白是非對錯

運 能力

障礙天才

啟發本性

Pattern

Relative

Label

Value

Message

Signal

Communication 

Appreciation

Faith

Respect

Cherish

有情就有煩惱

什麼是病？

病是失衡

所以

人皆有病

平衡則安

無情則安

眾生有情

眾生不安

皆

失衡有病

實際傷害

如無 忍受 防敏

我欣賞...金句大全

成功原因懂欣賞

失敗因不懂欣賞

放下原因懂欣賞

執着因不懂欣賞

自在原因懂欣賞

煩惱因不懂欣賞

平安原因懂欣賞

不安因不懂欣賞

成佛原因懂欣賞

成魔因不懂欣賞

健康原因懂欣賞

疾病因不懂欣賞

凡事欣賞 稱之為神

不懂欣賞 稱之為魔

凡事欣賞 為之神佛

自我欣賞 最為重要

福只有一種 就是 懂得欣賞

罪只有一種 就是 不懂欣賞

禍只有一種 就是 不懂欣賞

安就是 凡事欣賞

凡事欣賞 便得安

安全感 就是凡事欣賞

凡事欣賞 便有 安全感

智者常樂

因懂欣賞

發揮所長

凡事欣賞 就會自在 平安喜樂

溝通在於欣賞互相價值

欣賞 就是自在 平安喜樂

安樂就是 懂得欣賞

平安就是 懂得欣賞

自在就是 懂得欣賞

懂得欣賞

發揮所長

窮因不懂欣賞

富因懂得欣賞

欣賞是福

有情就有煩惱

對錯黑白是非

互相欣賞 溝通珍惜 尊重信任 明白價值

好辛苦左右腦

自相矛盾 不平衡

獨一無二

學習溝通模式

Introvert內向

Autism自閉

Asperger亞氏

Dyslexia讀寫

Social skills社交

Interpersonal skills人際

ADHD過動

OCD強迫

Trauma創傷

Bi polar兩極

Schi分裂

呼吸

Brake turbo

自然發展

平衡自在

情理敏感

IQ EQ

左右為難

左右手寫

小朋友

聽其自然

無為而治

頭腦五官

身體四肢

五藏六府

陰陽平衡

四大五蘊

三蛇六賊

科學醫學

Success= luck

Luck include ability

Success 100% depends on made up of luck

Luck including ability

Bad luck takes away your ability

How to appreciate myself n be appreciated

唔識貨請彈開

識貨者請珍惜

防風防水

缺點即是優點就是賣點

Understand 

Appreciate

誰想學壞

不被明白

不被欣賞

先明白

後欣賞

我們皆有障礙天才

幸福的人欣賞天才

不幸的人埋怨障礙

缺點即是優點就是賣點

從趣入門

明白欣賞

外國所長

我們皆有障礙天才

幸福的人欣賞天才

不幸的人埋怨障礙

We all have impairments n gifts

我們皆有長短之處

幸福的人欣賞所長

不幸的人埋怨其短

歧視別人就有精神病

天才與溝通

叻人係用人之長

愚者chur人之短

大家齊齊做叻人啦

Focus theory

Focus on minority

Miss majority

Lin ma 助攻

助人成功

欣賞

明白

明白欣賞珍惜尊重信任自己

欣賞所長 明白感受

可解Touchy irritation sensitive

情貪求安

您是否明白 有否顧及 我的感受？

您是否明白 有否顧及 對方感受？

Just his style

Assets utilization management 

柔和

本來面目

柔和 平和 調和

知事少時煩惱少

唔試就一定唔得

不知不煩

煩因知

不去知

不會煩

Do not bury your gifts with knowledge

U r the next star when u believe 

人人我認為

係中國人父母心目中自己的兒女都是白癡仔女               

001

溝通 

欣賞

珍惜

尊重

信任

有求便苦

何騙術行

因無求也

只要有求

被牽著走

不得自由

無欲無求

真正自由

有情無情皆在變

苦樂皆不恆久

聽自然

何強求

為情而學

天生才子多風流

有靈有情

有情有貪

有貪有求有煩惱

煩惱生苦

有靈有情 便有貪嗔癡罪苦

有情 便有苦

每coin有正有負

負反過來便正

苦反過來是樂

不安反過來便是安

萬物求平衡

眾生求安

Chance 機會

Black cat white cat

自信因無知

關係 訊息 出入平安

不比較 不形容 不代表

平衡 中庸 順其自然

思想 語言 行為 身心靈合一一致

欣賞自然 

發揮本性

重要嗎 值得嗎

介意 計較 認真 在乎嗎

識貨嗎

有心 道德 技巧

能力 運氣 要求

自在 平安 平衡

敏感模式

需要 溝通

安情貪求

黑白是非對錯

運 能力

障礙天才

啟發本性

Pattern

Relative

Label

Value

Message

Signal

Communication 

Appreciation

Faith

Respect

Cherish

有情就有煩惱

什麼是病？

病是失衡

所以

人皆有病

平衡則安

無情則安

眾生有情

眾生不安

皆

失衡有病

實際傷害

如無

忍受

防敏

我欣賞...金句大全

成功原因懂欣賞

失敗因不懂欣賞

放下原因懂欣賞

執着因不懂欣賞

自在原因懂欣賞

煩惱因不懂欣賞

平安原因懂欣賞

不安因不懂欣賞

成佛原因懂欣賞

成魔因不懂欣賞

健康原因懂欣賞

疾病因不懂欣賞

凡事欣賞 稱之為神

不懂欣賞 稱之為魔

凡事欣賞 為之神佛

自我欣賞 最為重要

福只有一種 就是 懂得欣賞

罪只有一種 就是 不懂欣賞

禍只有一種 就是 不懂欣賞

安就是 凡事欣賞

凡事欣賞 便得安

安全感 就是凡事欣賞

凡事欣賞 便有 安全感

智者常樂

因懂欣賞

發揮所長

凡事欣賞 就會自在 平安喜樂

溝通在於欣賞互相價值

欣賞 就是自在 平安喜樂

安樂就是 懂得欣賞

平安就是 懂得欣賞

自在就是 懂得欣賞

懂得欣賞

發揮所長

窮因不懂欣賞

富因懂得欣賞

欣賞是福

有情就有煩惱

對錯黑白是非

好辛苦左右腦

一家人互相欣賞溝通珍惜尊重信任訊息明白價值

Left right brain functions

自相矛盾 不平衡

獨一無二

學習溝通模式

Introvert內向

Autism自閉

Asperger亞氏

Dyslexia讀寫

Social skills社交

Interpersonal skills人際

ADHD過動

OCD強迫

Trauma創傷

Bi polar兩極

Schi分裂

呼吸

Brake turbo

自然發展

平衡自在

情理敏感

IQ EQ

左右為難

左右手寫

小朋友

聽其自然

無為而治

頭腦五官

身體四肢

五藏六府

陰陽平衡

四大五蘊

三蛇六賊

科學醫學

Success= luck

Luck include ability

Success 100% depends on made up of luck

Luck including ability

Bad luck takes away your ability

How to appreciate myself n be appreciated

唔識貨請彈開

識貨者請珍惜

防風防水

缺點即是優點就是賣點

Understand 

Appreciate

誰想學壞

不被明白

不被欣賞

先明白

後欣賞

我們皆有障礙天才

幸福的人欣賞天才

不幸的人埋怨障礙

缺點即是優點就是賣點

從趣入門

明白欣賞

外國所長

我們皆有障礙天才

幸福的人欣賞天才

不幸的人埋怨障礙

We all have impairments n gifts

我們皆有長短之處

幸福的人欣賞所長

不幸的人埋怨其短

歧視別人就有精神病

天才與溝通

叻人係用人之長

愚者chur人之短

大家齊齊做叻人啦

Focus theory

Focus on minority

Miss majority

Lin ma 助攻

助人成功

欣賞

明白

明白欣賞珍惜尊重信任自己

欣賞所長 明白感受

可解Touchy irritation sensitive

情貪求安

您是否明白 有否顧及 我的感受？

您是否明白 有否顧及 對方感受？

Just his style

Assets utilization management 

柔和

本來面目

柔和 平和 調和

知事少時煩惱少

唔試就一定唔得

不知不煩

煩因知

不去知

不會煩

Do not bury your gifts with knowledge

U r the next star when u believe 

人人我認為

係中國人父母心目中自己的兒女都是白癡仔女

parents

parents

parents is the key to mental illness

let alone DNA, kids with mental illness always brought up by parents with messy concepts and messy minds

why some parents with messy habits concepts and minds and their kids are shining bright we ask

key is do the parents or does the parent use his or her messy habits to bring up n coach their kids

situations:

messy parent or parents that forces what he or she thinks best for his or her kids to learn messy concepts and keep affecting them because he or she thinks its best for them

messy parent or parents that leaves their kids alone

clear concept parent or parents that coaches their kids

clear concept parent or parents that leaves kids alone

if one messy parent and one clear concept parent we need to see who is dominant

if the messy parent is dominant or worse both parents are messy then we will have messed up or very messed up kids

concepts can be clear up by learning from clear concept people with good communication skills

but the parents would keep affecting kids if they live together with kids

after therapy, parents know but not agree to their own faults because if they admit, they think they cannot face their kids cannot face themselves and the world

so they choose to turn a blind eye on it, simply speaking, they choose to sacrifice their kids and keep them fed with medicine and jabbing needles than having the guts to admitting to their own faults

messy people are usually not grown up, they are not mature to admit to their own faults and not prepared to be responsible for what they have done including their kids and love ones.  

if you find it hard, then it is the hardest, need not worry, it is just passing by, stay off its track and you will be ok.

if you find it hard, then it is the hardest, need not worry, it is just passing by, stay off its track and you will be ok.

value

value

you are how you make of it

treat others as you would like to be treated and you would be treated as you would like to

it is easier to control how you treat others than to control how others treat you

give before you can get

the brighter you shine, the more you must care for ones around you

what goes round comes round

know and be confident of your true values and selling points but needs to follow rules of nature

routine

routine

the power of a mouthful can eat the world

the power of a grain can built dessert

the power of a drop can fill the sea

the power of a ray can light planets

the power of none can fill universe

what we practice daily is what we are in test and exam of our tough times

practice what you want to be daily

things wont come in a bang...till you practice daily 

無形容詞 無名詞 no label no adjective no noun

無形容詞 無名詞

no label no adjective no noun

無形容無名稱

無相對無分別無比較

無代表無標籤

無量度無計算

無規矩無規則無規律

無限制無法規

無標準無規範

無空間

無時間地方人物

無法理情

無情緒情感情理

無貪嗔癡

無苦

無問題無煩惱

無身心靈

無相

無你無我無眾生

無福祿壽命運

無生老病死無成著壞空

no n none

no n none

‘it all seeded n started from adjectives and nouns that you put on things to make it come true

stop using adjectives and nouns labels is the key to your locked cell’

ghosts cannot scare babies

you must learnt what a ghost is before ghosts can scare you

we are so happy during baby times, the older we get, the less happy we become, why?

because from birth onwards we learn to put adjectives and nouns labels on anything and everything

we learn different rules and measurements to measure and compare ourselves with

things become relative, yin and yang, black and white, right and wrong and we become happy and sad with questions and problems arising

our memory bank store more and more bad experiences and feelings, in order to prevent them from happening again, we become cold blooded and freeze up our heart feelings, to feel good and for self benefit, we can do anything and everything needed 

if you become so ill that your soul mind and feelings is jailed, my method is for you:

you feel bad?

what is bad?

bad comes to life when you describe it with the adjective bad and with a noun of yourself relate to it

your brain trace back to the memory bank of model responses and feelings to make you feel truly bad with related bad thoughts speeches and actions correspond to your adjectives and nouns effects from every part of you expressing and acting these actions to express your feelings

it all seeded n started from adjectives and nouns that you put on things to make it come true

stop using adjectives and nouns labels is the key to your locked cell

no adjective no noun no label

no adjective no noun no label

“adjectives and nouns labels controls n jails our mood and soul

to jail break, stop using adjectives and nouns labels

full stop”

from birth we started to learn adjectives, nouns and labels anything and everything we know

as we get to around 30 years old, our adjectives nouns and labels bank is exploding with many ill meanings and bad experiences links to them which drag us down

adjectives nouns and labels is the seed which grows roots stem leafs etc

when we use adjectives and nouns to label people matter n stuff, we traces through the roots to the fruits of good and bad experiences stored in our memory which effects our mood with thoughts speeches and actions which controls us

we have soul so we have mood

soul have mood due to these nouns and adjectives labels 

adjectives and nouns labels controls n jails our mood and soul

to jail break, stop using adjectives and nouns labels

full stop

苦惱？ 不安？ 不和？

苦惱？

不安？

不和？

改善關係

溝通補習

對象：子女 父母 夫婦 情侶

           兄弟姊妹 上司下屬

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馬碩鴻 (matthew ma)

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symbolic

symbolic

everything represents themselves

when we hear someone swear, scream, shout or hit us, we would be very angry and revenge, hitting them back or something

if we are a baby, would that be different?

yes, we don’t know the words, the sound and the action represent

they are just feelings, when it hit us, it hit us, then its gone

as we grow old, our mind are full of labels

this mean that and that mean this, we become more and more messed up and confused

actually, what we feel is what we feel

it hit us, it hit us, its gone, its gone

no symbolic

no relation

no memory

light life

zen

now

now

flexible, here and now

adapt to change any moment

accept and appreciate limitations

communicate, appreciate, cherish, respect and faith

communication is needed between souls

if we cannot change, we should adapt

we should accept now and utilize what we have

many use communication advantages to benefit themselves over ones less able to communicate than themselves 

many communicate well but others pretend not getting the message for their own good

wise men knows feelings of others and themselves and make others and themselves feel good as a result and target

clever and smart guys knows the feelings of themselves and others but they choose to benefit themselves and sacrifice the feelings of others

dull boy don’t know the feelings of themselves and others and they harm others and themselves by doing not appropriate actions with their raw feelings.

write straight from heart and never check what i write...this is matthew ma

self II

self II

when Jon’s parents divorce they feel guilty when they face Jon and they use cash n luxury goods to exchange for Jon’s acceptance and forgiveness

no matter Jon accept or reject the cash and goods will do no difference to the decision, fact and result of his parents separation

in other words, Jon’s parents love themselves more than they love Jon

shall Jon accept cash and goods?

key is the cash and goods is symbolic for contract of acceptance of exchange for forgiveness which is not quite right and fair

Jon’s parents is responsible for forever for this damage done to Jon and no matter what they do they can never get even with Jon

cash and presents does not equal to getting even

what can Jon do?

Jon can do nothing but accept the limitations of the selfishness of human including his parents

If one day he is dad of others he could love his children more than he love himself.