Help

Harm and help are two basic human nature.

We harm others because we fear we anger and we hate because we lack of love

We help others because we are full of love and want to share our love with others

Family background and childhood is a key, when a person grow up in a not safe environment, he lives in fear and non safety anger hatred and greed so he has to protect himself

This protecting action harms others and makes others put off, people either run away or harm him in return, the more he is harm and not safe, the more fear anger and hatred he has and the stronger the repelling and resisting force to fight back to form a viscous circle

We can pray to God and express our feelings in details, communicate through languages, speeches and articles to express our fear anger and hatred, it is like pinning holes in a balloon to prevent it to burst.

We can help self and others through communication, mood problems originates from don’t know how to express our own feelings to others and no bridging with the outside world, if we communicate our feelings well through speeches and articles we would not have mood problems.

Expression of mood through speeches and articles needs daily practice bit by bit for it to be able to run smooth when needed.

Fear

Fear and love

Greed and hatred

We fear because we lack of love

We can get love from God or make our own and share it and do not expect anything in return to avoid getting hurt and injured.

We can create love and motivation from sports, arts and positive leisure activities and avoid compete compare and insult on win and lose

Human have fear which form greed and hatred so and because we compete compare and insult on the process and result.

From young we are taught to fear we cannot make a living when older so we learn and beat others in test exam and competitions

We have a group of friends so we bully and pick on ones that don’t communicate well who don’t have friends.

When we work and in sports games and even in art, we fear so we want to beat others to reach success for feeding ourselves and gain comfort

We fear, we greed for comfort and thirst for winning so we hate when we lose and we harm and destroy when we hate which creates more fear for self and others.

Praying to God does help and be aware of your own thoughts speeches and actions and be aware to stop to pass on any fear greed and hatred instead pass on the love of God to everyone you know and everyone you meet.

這個世界上 並沒有瘋子 只有不懂得 有效地溝通 表達自己內心感受的人

語文溝通 愛人自愛

Devil

Devil

We are directed by our mood, many try and learn to direct our mood but no one can tell they success or not.

Mood is well when balance, too high or too low imbalance mood irritates us.

Key is not to harm self and others and further these over high and over low mood when we experience them.

We have to communicate and express our feelings but key is to love and not to fear and harm in whatever we think say and act.

Pass on and spread the balance love comfort and peace, stop the imbalance fear greed and hatred wherever whenever whoever whatever however.

Christian

We believe in God simply because we have many problems to be solved and some wish that need or want to fulfil

And many say God can help us to solve these problems and fulfil these dreams and wishes

But the fact is, when we go to church everyone prays to god and our problems are out of the topic and our problems stays there rotten and untouched, dreams and needs are not fulfilled

Brothers and sisters always say I pray for you, god knows they really do, may be that’s all they do, even if they do I dont see much difference anyway

We wish every time when we go to church we can solve our problems and fulfil needs but result is completely opposite

At the end of every night, we go through process of praying and many procedures which adds onto our original problems.

Some say church is a place much more complicated than the outside world, when we think we can put all our problems down with god, can we really? It worth a real think again.

Fail

Fail

Dear those who fail:

Do things only within your own ability

Do what you enjoy and enjoy what you do

If we fail we should leave

If we fail again and again, we must leave

Personally forced myself to study and worked hard for being first fifteen rugby team, school prefect and head of house

Fact is due to discrimination I got none of them, everyday I attend school I was living in hell because fact proof I am an absolute failure.

Finally I got nervous breakdown because I force myself doing something out of my ability which I should have ran away and avoided for

Many champion and winners when they shared their story they shared persistence and they said if you fail then try again, that’s a true lie because they have talent, they enjoy what they do and they have ability to do it

If anything hurts, avoid it, wait till it kills then its too late for you and your love ones

Doing things you don’t enjoy and out of your ability you and your love ones will suffer, your enemy would be in joy to see you and your love ones suffer in pain

Be sensible:

Do things only within your own ability

Do what you enjoy and enjoy what you do

Gift

Gift

This article is dedicated to my gifted student Alex

Everyone got their own gift

We have to develop our gift and strength and neglect our weakness

Gift is what we find interesting and find relatively easy success compare with others on.

For things we fail in we have to avoid and run far from them as they would drive us moody and ends in madness and self-destruction

Develop gift enjoyment process is a gift in itself, when we are self actualised self assured and found confidence pleasure and happiness in pursuing our gift that’s all that matters in life really.

Practice

Practice

All theories are from practice

Practice is the end of all theories

Kung fu is pass on in two ways, theories and practice

Kung fu was formed centuries ago with some mad moves with a lunatic beating another

The champion of all transform and transfer his moves into words articles instructions and diagrams, here forms theories and the knowledge bank for endless lunatic earning their living and many sending their kids to learn these mad moves to beat other little lunatics

All theories starts and ends with practice

So if you can practice and it works in real life that’s all that matters.

wrong

Wrong

There are many holy rules and bibles telling us what to do and what not to do

But it is not flexible and hard to live smoothly if we have to apply these rules to our everyday life

The system teach us these rules but when we follow them we find we live in pain and sorrow

When the rules fails to protect us and even harms us again and again then it is time to become flexible and override the system and all the rules to live smoothly.

works

Works

As long as it works it is ok to use any method

Personally has learn so many holy rules and not harm anyone but cause greatest harm to myself and if I am harmed I can do nobody any good.

Now I realise all rules must come to an end and override by practice

Aim of all rules is to practice and to be practical

No matter what I do, the only target is it works for me, if it doesn’t then all holy rules should go in the rubbish bin.

Puzzle

Life is like a puzzle

We all have different strengths and weaknesses

We fit together to form a society

Some fits well only with a few

Some fits well with many

Some say we are what we born

Some say we can be flexible and adapt to change

It is up to us to choose what to believe and to pursue.

Sushi

Life is like a sushi meal

A sushi is a mouthful but different mouthful cost different prices and gives us different comfort needs

Life is a mouthful at a time

Two benefit take the most

Two harm take the least

We have to learn how to earn in and spend out to obtain the minimal cost with the maximal comfort, that’s all about life really.

Desperate

When we r desperate thirst

A glass of water in front of us

No matter it is dirty or clean we would fight our life for it and drink it

To prevent this happen

Give yourself plenty time and choices for everything and everyone

When you have time you have choice

When you have choice you are never desperate.

faith

faith

u have faith u have peace

u dont have faith u dont have peace

the more money we have the less faith we have in people

con has to train themselves to have no faith in others

they finally lost faith in themselves and this calls mental illness

a person with luck is a person with peace

a person with peace is a person with faith

the biggest blessing and the biggest luck in life is to have faith and peace wherever whenever whatever however and whoever you are.

faith

faith

u have faith u have peace

u dont have faith u dont have peace

the more money we have the less faith we have in people

con has to train themselves to have no faith in others

they finally lost faith in themselves and this calls mental illness

a person with luck is a person with peace 

a person with peace is a person with faith

the biggest blessing and the biggest luck in life is to have faith and peace wherever whenever whatever however and whoever you are.

Strength

We all have something we are good at

We all have strengths

It is up to fate and destiny to lead us for self aware

With encouragement comparison and competition we gain confidence and success which with luck we can earn our dinner

We need a true friend that can give us self awareness encouragement and confidence for us to drive our way to the touch line

If you want a true friend, be a true friend to others first

What goes round comes round

Treat others as you like to be treated.

Angel

We are lost when we are too devoted to pursue and we don’t know how we are performing

Angels gives us true feedback encourage us analyse our strengths weakness opportunities and threats and gives us confidence to carry on our journey or hold us back when its too risky and danger to move forward

Devil gives us false feedback and wrong information and mislead us into traps for their own good and benefit

Start from me, I would be others angel, how about you?

Think

Think

U think u lose

U will lose if u think

Shared by my ping pong coach mr Li, from his 30 years experience summary in one sentence

I doubt planning very much

I have been educated under world of planning

Planning makes my generation fail

My generation was brought up by plan

Daily plan hourly plan weekly plan monthly plan year plan

Plan makes us fail

It is because plan is not flexible

US is a good sample

Chinese don’t have much plan and becomes the biggest cash lender to support the world

Plan means expectation

When we fulfil our plan, there is no surprise

If we fail our plan, we live in pain

If we exceed our plan, we clap like a robot, drink like an alcoholic and on we go to the next plan

We don’t live naturally if we plan

We plan we fail

We think we fail

Don’t think too much as thinking only makes things worse in nearly all cases.

First generation after world war two success because they don’t plan they don’t think, they act they do and they work their bottoms off without thinking and planning, no secret, that’s the key of how they succeed and how we fail.

Wise

Wise

There is a type of people claims themselves to be smart

They take advantage over ones less smart than themselves creating greed hate and fear in the society in order to benefit themselves

They haven’t worked out we are all living on earth as a whole

They use tricks and false news to direct and mislead the majorities behaviour for their own good

They are smart but unwise

Smart and stupid is actually the same thing

Wise people treat everyone the same, wise man would not harm others

Wise man benefits all parties, wise man see world as a whole

Wise man treats others as he likes to be treated.

Coin

Every coin has two sides
To own one must accept both sides
It is up to us to choose which side facing us.

Every coin has two sides To own one must accept both sides It is up to us to choose which side facing us.

一有想法您就輸 U think U lose

寧當大意的大人物 不當小心的小人物

寧當大意的大人物
不當小心的小人物

一有想法 念一動 意一起 心一生您便辛苦 就緊張 有壓力與煩惱 您就不享受 您便輸

一有想法 念一動 意一起 心一生您便辛苦 就緊張 有壓力與煩惱 您就不享受 您便輸

Know

We are control by what we know, we are limited by what we learn

The Brazilian footballer enjoys football, they never feel bad on the hot climate and strong sun, but after they been in the city and been hooked with air conditioner, they cannot turn back to their village life

Hong Kong people always brainwash by charities with pictures of kids from less well off countries for donation

Fact is kids never know they are in pain till we educate them what pain is

We are so selfish cruel and wrong

We educate and pollute minds of world youth on freedom health education and knowledge which turns them from a simple and peaceful life into a complicate worry fear hatred and greedy person

We are in peace till we learn what our right is

Till we learn some have more rights than the others.

Con

Con

Many con others and con themselves that they are doing good to the world but the fact is the opposite.

Those ones love to say others are negative and admit themselves to be positive.

Fact is fact, depends on angles and point of view, everything has pros and cons good and bad side, we all choose a side that benefits us to stand on.

It is ok with that but when someone’s benefit harms us and they then say: oh why are you so negative

If the character swop and they are the victim, it is sure that their temper and action would be much more explosive.

Many stupid people has double standard and cannot stand the rules they made up and always has to be the champion, if not they change the rules like the Olympic Game.

What more stupid is many actually follow their rules and no one point this out.

Bully

Today’s society we focus on the strong bully the weak, we judge strong and weak by look, the conclusion is adult male is the victim who all the anti bully organisations target to hunt down.

These organisations are totally unwise or we can say they are silly and stupid.

There are many types of strong include psychologically mentally spiritually verbally sexually and many more.

Many female like to use their gender as a weapon to harm and to get benefits from male and those female use those org to protect themselves

Children would bully adult, we would say, oh they are only kid

We must ask:

what cause the physical bully?

The person to physically bully others, themselves has many problems and there must be something that someone do to cross their deadline to fire up the tank of oil for it to explode

Simply speaking there has to be out of order behaviour from the target before action is taken

More simply: they ask for it and they deserve it

We have to ask:

Why we bully others

What can we get out of bullying

What cause the action

What history and harm we had

We bully because we harmed by others because we love others and we care too much and when others neglect our feelings we got harmed and we get our own back to put it into action.

Label

Label

We love to put label on things people and matters

From when we were born, we started to learn, to learn to put label on things people and matters.

When we get to around 30 if we don’t delabel, we would find our life not so smooth.

Labels are needed on danger with unchanged same case same result danger, for example if we jump from the 20^th floor out the window we would die. So we put a death label on this matter to stop ourselves from doing this action under any circumstances to avoid harming ourselves and others.

But most label in life would drag us down for example: beautiful girls are pleasant, if we put the label of pleasant on beauty, we would get hurt and ending up have an imbalance mood harming self and others as a result.

Every thing person and matter is how they are, any label or adjective to describe them is not totally suitable.

Adverts puts positive labels on their product and service and repeat these images and sounds to brainwash everyone of us.

So for your own good delabel when you can

We don’t need most labels

Things are good as they are

A child is not scared until you teach him what ghost is

A child is calm until you educate him what pain is.

無嘢可令您掛心頭 方為自在安樂

無嘢可令您掛心頭 

方為自在安樂

做

I have strong communication skill n strong understanding power, but I give up on those authors who don't have a single clue in communication.

The education of human race rely on them, the world is real hopeless. 

Authors poor communication skill poor language skill poor summarizing n poor explanation power drives me MAD!!! Real Mad!! No joke!!! Fuck those assholes, they r cons, con students for time n effort, con parents for money.

Those fucking authors drives students n parents desperate n hopeless.

Those authors r murderers.

唔係無嘢煩您

係無嘢可以煩到您

隨心所欲：

世界並沒有變

變嘅係我嘅心

從心所欲 因常懂欣賞身邊每人事物之長處

常懂欣賞 常滿足

從心所欲 Nothing can bother u

隨心所欲：

世界並沒有變

變嘅係我嘅心

從心所欲 Nothing can bother u

常懂欣賞 常滿足

從心所欲 因常懂欣賞身邊每人事物之長處

成敗得失並不重要 因是同一樣嘢 

人生 志在參與 享受過程

九十而意順

老年才學會到不受任何不如意不完美人事物困擾 才學會包容

人要學習接受不完美

學習不被不完美影響

大部分人一生也做不到

特別是有錢有權勢的人

小馬：

本人係一位心理醫生

世間係我嘅醫院

世人係我嘅病人

係您嘅就唔會失去

When u can hands on, it's time to hands off.

完美是假

完美是魔

完美是心魔

接受不完美才可生活

看破因緣和合 

就知本來如是

因緣和合 本來如是

正的邪的 好的壞的 

任何相對的 都是我的

對任何人

切忌交代

交朋友 切忌 交淺言深

By poon Pak wing 

任何事梗有好有唔好

要全部好晒除非騙您

任何事梗有好有唔好

要全部好晒真係無嫁 

by poon pak wing

點解別人做嘅嘢會影響到您自己呢

風動 旗動 

仁者您心動啫

路只得一條

選擇只得一個

走下去

失敗者都是有高目標

成功者都是順其自然

沒有對沒有錯

其實路只得一條

其實大家也冇得揀

其實大家已盡力

做得很好了

錯是一種對

對是一種錯

自在平安者

便隨遇而安

All things r 相對 n 並非絶對

相對者生

絶對者死

相對 唔係絶對

有用無用都是人想出來的

世本沒有用沒無用

分別心生起了

才有有用有無用

有分別心便不自在便輸

平常心是道

覺得自己無用

因為未曾感因

覺得自己無用

因為不懂欣賞

覺得自己無用

因為歧視別人

人最大幸福係覺得自己有用

人最大不幸係覺得自己冇用

自私貪心 咩好處都想要晒嘅人 

會變成瘋子

咩好處都要晒 又自私又貪心 

咁只有騙子才服侍得到您

咁您啫係乜好處都要晒啫

咁D壞處邊個要呀

咁只有騙子才服侍得到您la

The dearest price to pay in life is don't have to pay any 

Pay the price

全部好嘢要晒

假如我現在去世 

還有什麼值得執着呢

所有理想不再關我事

所有是非與我無關

而我 又有什麼遺憾呢

考考您，您的員工們最想從您口中知道關於他她們自己的兩個字是什麼，又最怕知道那兩個字呢？真心答wor

接受不完美才可生活

接受失去 才會擁有

接受失敗 才會成功

在任何事情上包括感情 我是十分自私貪心 全部好處都想要 差點一無所有

Make a difference

每個生命也想自己有用並可發揮所長 我們需要機會 有些機會是可自己創造 有些則要靠貴人相助 但如想遇到貴人 不如先成為別人的貴人

Target is wrong

Target gives us nothing but nervous moody n pain

Target makes us check n keep checking, r we there yet, far from it

When we get there, no surprise or disappointment, as we targetted for it

Target is man made 

We need natural

We r living lives, not robots

Robots needs targets, we don't.

成功需長時間一點一滴日積月累

破壞只需一刻間

時間是最大考驗

當您享受時間

您便通過考驗

夢係需要愛黎支持

做到了您就滿足嗎

杜 多謝並感恩您指出我的盲點 在任何事情上包括感情 我是十分自私貪心 全部好處都想要 差點一無所有，多謝提點，完美一家文章也是由您由此啓發，多謝您幫了我一家，matthew

每個夢都有價 且通常很貴

There is a price for every dream...the price is usually very dear 

Dreaming is the most expensive activity on earth

發夢是人生最貴的活動

無嘢可令到我辛苦

只有我可令人快樂

Practice is the end of all theories

Practice is the end of all theories

啓發障礙的天才 sparkle the impaired and gifted

快樂是一種選擇

完美一家：

我家活在痛苦中

因我家追求完美

我家的確很近完美

但我家的確很慘

因我家把不足無限放大

因我家不會接受不完美

所以常活在苦中

雖然我家離完美很近

但卻很遠

因完美根本不存在世

誰追求完美者

只會如餓鬼活在地獄般

時刻無間受苦

直到學會了不再追求完美

才得解脫

隨緣做好身邊的事對好身邊的人

您嘅career n job course ad email, 大部分缺點我也有，我無興趣知道怎去對付我的同類，我極有興趣知道怎可令自己受歡迎，相信很多朋友也有同樣需要，no one wants to cause trouble, we all love to be part of the team, but how???

錯也是一種對

苦也是一種樂

長也是一種短

成也是一種敗

快也是一種慢

高也是一種低

聰明也是一種笨

包容到任何缺失 不計較任何錯處

全部因素完全符合 絶對無可能

冇人想針對別人

All about factors

All factors

思想幻想無限放大負面化事實

太重視緊張自己

咁睇得起自己

上天咁睇得起我

別人咁睇得我起

如果自己唔係咁睇得起自己

冇人包括個天 會睇得起您

壓力 是自己給自己的

敏感放大情感情緒

算好 不算差

與差的比 自己快樂

好壞成敗得失怎定義

全因您覺得

It's all in your head

I have to be responsible for the ones I love n the ones who loves me

覺得慘 因看不到自己的幸福

我幸福 因我不是最慘

一滴水 

比差幸福

心

怎定義開心快樂成功 

只需要您覺得就是了

當冇人欣賞您 當您的長處優點強項連您自己也不相信 開始質疑自己 最少的是...我始終是我

發揮不出不代表您沒才能

Enjoy過程 無對錯 

偉大有意義無聊

任何情況我是我

我是否強求不滿不安

隨緣行善 隨喜

Bothering u?

Nothing bothers u

Nothing can bother u

時機

我要對我愛及愛我嘅人付責 不會令他她們擔心傷心痛心

確實去做 踏出了第一步 之後成功與否 其實不重要 by / with thanx to Tiffany 

不求不存在世的完美 

安於發揮人事物所長

蠢人永遠覺得別人比自己蠢

智者永遠覺得自己愚笨

底死 底您死 好底死 真底死 您真係好底死 一種生人百種底死

If u want to get the best of both worlds, u will get the completely opposite

賢，這世界絶無一步到位，要肯做去做，一步一步，經驗慮積，不斷犯錯，不斷改良，堅持努力，享受過程，不在乎結果，隨心隨緣 不強求 不求不存在世的完美 欣賞每人事物強項長處優點 為人常安樂自在，小馬

I may be wrong but do I get the chances to get it right?

求完美者窮 懂欣賞者富

接受現實就是不完美

U r gifted but like everyone of us, u need chances to fail n to practice your gift

懂得欣賞 才是富有

任何人事物都有長處優點

有智慧的人把握發掘發揮

任何身邊人事物的長處優點

有智慧快樂自在者

懂得欣賞任何在其身邊人事物

把別人認為垃圾的人事物

潛能長處優點本質發揮出來

助己助人 自利利他

這就是神

不求不存在世的完美 安於發揮人事物所長

任何人事物都有強項長處優點懂得欣賞發掘發揮者常安樂自在

隨緣不強求 不求不存在世的完美乃負面情緒及不安不平𧗾之解藥

助人發掘發揮長處

完美主義 就是強求不隨緣

求完美求不得苦逃避嫖賭飲吹黃賭毒

Not why u get it wrong but why don't u create more chances to get it right

Does it bother u?

Why does it bother u?

Not why u done it wrong

But why don't u get more chances to get it right

看不起人不尊重人不信任別人

珍惜 重視 尊重 信任 溝通 是任何關係基礎也是任何問題的始根源頭

任何人事物在他手上也是有用並其長處得以發揮 他就是神

對我每個病人都有信心invest in every single one of them

免息分期

Live Life What for? For enjoy發揮長處

Value 價值

偉大理想 完美主義 精神失常 身心靈失衡

這世界絶無一步到位，要肯做去做，一步一步，經驗慮積，不斷犯錯，不斷改良，堅持努力，享受過程，不在乎結果，隨心隨緣 不強求 為人最樂

幻想永遠是偏激的

現實永遠是自然的

瘋顛痴呆懵蠢笨 七小福

Mat:

耶穌有無讀過神學院 佛陀有無讀過佛學院 李嘉誠有無讀過商學院 開國王帝又是誰教出來的 食飯痾屎使唔使人教先？

Poon:

對的,孔子冇讀教育學院,華佗冇讀醫學院.孫武冇讀軍事學院

U won't win if u don't know how to lose

但求心安

空者 不受影響

任何不安不自在因追求完美

任何失敗皆因追求完美

珍惜 重視 尊重 信任 溝通 是任何關係基礎

亞當夏娃都是完美主義者 所以都被關進醫癲院裏

If u want success, u will fail

If u accept failures, u will success

The biggest failure in life is cannot accept failures

追求不存在世的完美者 我們稱之為瘋子

Greed貪

Hatred嗔

Fear癡

您信嘅嘢害死您

一個謊言騙您多生

小時安換 大時換安

Peace of mind

醫者 令其病人 苦減至最低 安達至最多 包括身心靈 及其它方面

垂死者的5大人生憾事

第1個遺憾 

便是沒有勇氣去追求自己的夢想。

第2個遺憾

就是太努力工作，而沒有陪伴自己的家庭，包括小孩的成長階段，以及陪伴另一半的時間。

第3個遺憾

是最普遍的遺憾，是後悔自己沒有勇氣表達內心的情感

第4個遺憾

後悔沒和老朋友保持連絡。

第5個遺憾

後悔自己沒有快樂些。

需要彼此溝通了解明白感受

Communication 

Understanding of needs n feelings

完美一家

我家活在痛苦中
因我家追求完美
我家的確很近完美
但我家的確很慘
因我家把不足無限放大
因我家不會接受不完美
所以常活在苦中
雖然我家離完美很近
但卻很遠
因完美根本不存在世
誰追求完美者
只會如餓鬼活在地獄般
時刻無間受苦
直到學會了不再追求完美
才得解脫

樂土中的 海闊天空

大時代巨輪滾到現在 在香港這片樂土上 每人也各有各忙 彷彿巳遺忘了自己的passion 與理想, 在我們心中的海闊天空 就只有偶巳與知音分享 才有活現的空間…

Dear Atty on fb 2011年12月26日

Dear Atty

謝謝妳令我認識到愛, 感受到愛 及令我及時去愛, 愛我的家人, 伴侶, 朋友, 同學及 愛我身邊每一個人

原來我從不認識愛, 從未感受到愛及 從未真正的去愛過 包括我的家人, 伴侶 或朋友

一直以來任何關係 包括親情, 愛情 及友情 對我來說只是虛榮, 優越感, ‘威’ 和利用, 伴侶更只是滿足我慾的需要和替我解悶的人

在我生命裏只有恐懼, 憎恨 和貪慾

我活著彷彿只是為了贏, 為了打敗身邊每一個人 和為了擁有全世界

我懼怕輸, 懼怕失敗

我憎恨比我成功的人 及看不起比我差的人
在這touch choir Christmas show中我認識到愛, 感受到愛 及真正的去愛過…

我真正的enjoy到愛及被愛

完全享受生命的過程 而不再計較結果

with clear concepts and effective communication and love…我的生命變得充滿姿彩

Atty, 您是我生命中 ‘偶然遇上的驚喜’
我這生精彩因有您
Atty…謝謝您

From Matthew Ma 馬碩鴻
2011年12月26日

the smart speaks where the wise observate questions listens concerns response and react with love and care

the ultimate terror in life is without faith

‘life is all about QnA, where the smart answers and the wise asks’

‘life is all about QnA, where the smart answers and the wise asks’

Quote by Matthew S H Ma

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明白難處

欣賞長處

能力需要價值

苦惱？

不安？

不和？

改善關係

溝通補習

對象：子女 父母 

謝謝你欣賞我長處

希望你明白我難處

資優啟發 Gifted sparkling:

佢未識同你溝通 你未明白佢 唔等於佢傻

你唔識貨 唔代表佢無價值

懂得欣賞 才是富有

任何人事物都有長處優點

有智慧的人把握發掘發揮

任何身邊人事物的長處優點

有智慧快樂自在者

懂得欣賞任何在其身邊人事物

把別人認為垃圾的人事物

潛能長處優點本質發揮出來

助己助人 自利利他

這就是神

馬碩鴻於二零一二年作品:

'神給眾生的禮物'

世上不存在瘋子 只有未學懂與他人溝通 而未成功讓別人明白了解知道其思想語言行為的人。

唔係佢傻，係你唔明白佢啫。

當您未明白了解知道一個人
究竟是你蠢？
是你詐蠢？
還是他瘋？
還是他裝傻？

任何關係著重 尊重 信任 溝通
溝通目的在互相明白了解知道互相思想語言行為的限制及需要

這世界不存在正常人 更沒有所謂大部分人 因正常和大部分只是歧視別人的借口 而兩者皆沒有一個統一確實的定義。

There is no lunatic on earth, there is only people that do not know how to communicate with others so others cannot understand them.

no one is mad or crazy, just because you do not understand them

When you have not yet understood a person:
Does it mean you are stupid and silly?
Or do you pretend to be stupid and silly?
Or would you say he is crazy and mad?
Or he is pretending to be crazy and mad?

Any relationship needs faith respect and communication

Communication makes us understand each others’ thoughts, speeches and actions, limitations and needs.

世事無常

求常者苦

降低要求

不秤自己

執着失去

放下得到

求安失安

不求得安

Poon: 肯替別人想

立即行動 不期望 不代表 不等於

請你尊重你自己

Label

Adj noun

即係等於 

形容名詞

代表標籤

比較分別

即係等於

相對平常

無法無相

本來如是

重要值得

人騙自己

才會被騙

興趣能力需要價值肯做

尊重信任欣賞珍惜溝通

苦處難處長處

優點強項長處

尊重信任欣賞

能力需要價值

相對不同相同

分別心平常心

互相溝通 忌認叻

欣賞珍惜 忌貪威
尊重信任 不用欺負
發揮價值 不需自卑

互相俾機會表現 發揮 發展

減少控制
減少要求
減少貪慾
安守本份

抗拒屈辱
建立自信
發揮所長

貪為萬惡之源

只要有光就會有影

只要有靈就會有貪

佢未識同你溝通 你未明白佢 唔等於佢傻

你唔識貨 唔代表佢無價值

要求高 達不到 感不安

學懂 心安 與 互相溝通 小福星
互相：

欣賞 珍惜 

尊重 信任 

鼓勵 支持
體諒 認同
肯定 接納

互相俾機會表現 發揮 發展

安守本份
抗拒屈辱
建立自信
發展所長

罪只有一種 就是不懂欣賞

福只有一種 就是懂得欣賞

The only sin is without Thankfulness

The only bless is with Thankfulness

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助您 : 避過障礙 發揮天才 :

助人自助 vs 自利利他

欣賞 珍惜 尊重 信任 溝通 是任何關係基礎

思想 vs 語言 vs 行為

藝術 vs 語言 vs 哲學 vs 醫學 vs 科學 vs 文學 vs 教育 vs 科技

真心 真意 真誠

you can not teach a fish to walk : you need not teach a fish to swim.

Matthew Ma the Communicatist

溝通專家 馬碩鴻 

communication trainer

communication coach

溝通導師

溝通教練

電話 ∕ SMS / whatsapp / 留言

telephone / voicemail / text messages mailbox: 

9194 0869 (Hong Kong local calls) 

or

+852 9194 0869 (international calls from outside Hong Kong)

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Concept of importance

Concept of importance

Everyone is unique, before birth we bring with us concepts from past lives, what we seen, heard, smelt, tasted, felt, incept, intake and learn, colors, sounds, temperatures, moods and feelings controls our every thoughts, speeches and actions thereafter and shape us into ‘us’ today.

Concept determines success and failure for every living things.

We think something or someone is good to us because we experienced it or learnt it from our experience in our history present or past lives of ourselves.

Advertisement and salesman who targets for the dollars in our bank accounts do whatever needed to “educate” us and track us towards our final action of handing over our cash and this is immoral or shall we say business has never been moral since the history of men especially under exploitation of modern mankind evolving and mutating more and more so from the past.

Concept can heal and concept can kill.

To heal we need to correct mistaken concepts, although we cannot draw a clean line between right and wrong but the rough guide is ‘what goes round comes round’ ‘treat others as you like to be treated’.

Education

Education

Education in ancient China is not popular, only the wealthy can afford to study, paper and books are expensive so only a tiny portion of population is educated.

After Sun Yet Sin revolution reform China, China opened its door from the age of Tang Xiao Ping and the launch of the internet, knowledge from outside world pours into China.

Chinese knowledge emphasis on morals and ethnics where western knowledge emphasis on money and power without any base on morals and ethnics. 

The less educated a person is the less morals he / she practices on his / her life, although under western education system many completed university but western education without any knowledge on morals making so call western well educated adults clever / smart but never wise.

They are equipped with weapons of knowledge, a bunch of uncivilised without moral yet well educated people use their advantages in law, business, finance and technology to control the world and they judge their success on money wealth and power to control over others weaker then them.

The system of strong beats the weak and weak beats the weaker in the raw jungle of man and disasters of immoral has begun causing lack of confidence, shamefulness and health imbalances upon the second generation of the world war two and beyond.

In the teachings of ancient Chinese masters of moralness there are many things we ‘can’ do but we ‘should not’ do, because eg we ‘can’ harm others feelings and sleep with endless woman but we ‘should not’ do it because by doing so would bring with it many negative consequences to who we love and the ones who loves us.

We ‘can’ harm the weak but we ‘should not’ do so because if we accept the concept of harming the weak, we are accepting the concept of we being harmed by the stronger.

‘What goes round comes round’, ‘treat others as you would like to be treated’ is the key to moralness of the Confucian Chinese teachings which is above any laws and bibles.

Bully

True strong would care for the weak, no one would stronger than them.

Fake strong would bully the weak and bully by the stronger in return.

Can and should not

Can and should not

There are many things we can do and within what we can do there are many we should not do. Although we have the ability to harm others in different way, shape or form but we should not do so.

‘Treat others as you would like to be treated’ is the key to most problems and crisis in our modern, “civilized” and yet immoral world of today.