Communicatist 溝通專家 馬碩鴻

Communicatist
溝通專家 馬碩鴻
Matthew ma the communicatist
溝通信任
降低要求

Peace

Peace of mind

Personally reckon, all living creatures look for peace of mind and all non living things look for balance of power.

Especially in medical health, ‘we look for a way that we will suffer the least and enjoy the most’, that’s the key to our living lifestyle and health trend and treatment.

Commercials creates hate, greed and fear to make us feel we should do something about it and drives ourselves hard to rob others so others can rob us.

Commercials and news creates negative energy implications to brainwash and hypnotise its audience, for the purpose of grabbing some bucks from others and to be able to being grabbed by others.

What we need is peace

Peace of mind. 

Jews and the US

Jews and the US

Jews are most clever and most smart peoples on earth but without any wisdom.

Anyone without wisdom is a fool.

Wisdom is peace and not creates hate through greed and fear.

Jews is loan sharks, immoral and unethical on business, this gets them money, power, financial wealth but comes with it hate, greed and fear.

Jews have no wisdom to know anything and everything: the harder you hit it against the wall, the harder it bounces back or shatters on your face.

Chinese saying is: you force a dog into a dead end tunnel and it will turn back and bite you so hard that you will cry for your mama.

Jews create social and financial and global peace problems for their own benefit, own profit and own good to the extreme, that’s act without wisdom, acts of fools.

The I implication

The I implication

I am a volunteer, I help you, you are ill and I am healthy, you are poor and I am wealthy

I am a nurse, I look after you, you are weak and I am strong

I am a doctor, I heal you, you are ill and I am well

I am a policeman, I catch you, you are bad and I am good

I am a priest, you are evil and I am holy

I am a counsellor, I counsel you, you are abnormal and I am normal

I am a fireman, I save you, you are in risk and I save you

I am an artist, I create, you have no talent and I am talented

Faith in patients

Communication is always lacking and communication is always poor between doctors and patients, it is both sides’ responsibility to communicate with each other.

Faith in mental illness and other brain related illnesses is in great lack and in great poor along side with communication.

Faith is needed by everyone, especially for patients.

Faith can be built up through effective communication.

Psychiatric hospital has always been related closely with the house of haunted, it is because patients are full of injustice, humiliation and resentment.

Imagine one day you wake up, you are in a white washed room facing the whitely coated psychiatric doctor with two strong male nurse “accompany” you to “protect” you

The doctor ask you some well designed psychological questions which you never have any knowledge on and never have any materials and model answers to revise on.

The doctor imply that he is there to help you and you can trust him totally to tell him how you feel.

You kindly and faithfully let out your pains and sorrows in words and the doctor stop you on the hard back when you just feeling great by letting your strong feeling out by words, and you soon realise…this few minutes of comfort comes in a lifetime of a dear price.

“The secret is you should not trust the doctors”

“If you need a chat, you need a friend or employ a trusted counsellor that is employ by you and not by other parties”

“Be sensible, use your head, never use your heart and never use any feelings when you are facing any doctors or medical persons.”

“The funny thing is the doctor imply you can trust him but he look for your correct act is without trust on him.”

“Doctor ask you to express your feelings and when you do so he knows you are ILL.”

“As a sensible person you do not trust strangers especially strange doctors.”

The doctor then signal your two strong guardian angels to transport you to your padded room with padded locks on your arms and legs and force needles and pills on you in the purpose of protecting you and helping you to turn normal.

After your injection and pills the side effects make you shake so hard you are like a motor, your piss and shit rush out of your holes and you cannot control any of it.

Ladies and gentlemen, this is not a dream not a story, this is true hard daily life that can happen to you me and anyone we love at any moment

All patients’ need is someone to share and understands their feelings.

No one should ever be labelled

I believe doctors keep patients ill for the purpose of paying their own dinner and feeding their own kid and I am sure one day they will become patients themselves to enjoy the privilege they provide to the innocent all these years.

In most cases patients’ family members have no faith in patients and trust the doctors will do the best for their love ones and many patients ended up being experimented on new drugs like rats after their family just sign anything comes on the table.

Now I call upon anyone and everyone to put this to light, to face solve and help with our fellow patients head on.

Are you brave enough or will you only choose to turn a blind eye on it till it either falls on the heads of your love ones or till it happens on you one day when you wake up…isn’t it a bit too late then???

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感恩者無求 便安得幸福 improved

感恩者無求 便安得幸福

越追求完美 便越渴求 感恩心便越少 便越貪 越嗔 越癡 便越多要求 便越難滿足 便越不安 便越不幸福

幸福的人沒要求 所以安 因有感恩心

當人追求完美到極 感恩心完全消失 便稱之為走火入魔 便成了瘋子 但如果慢慢練習感恩 便可變回幸福而安的人

所有敏感 包括情緒敏感 強迫 焦慮 不安 兩極分裂 屈燥 chur 都可用這感恩之法醫治

敏感症者 全因由 不懂感恩

感恩者無求 便安得幸福

小馬

感恩者無求 便安得幸福

感恩者無求 便安得幸福

越追求完美 便越渴求 感恩心便越少 便越貪 越嗔 越癡 便越多要求 便越難滿足 便越不安 便越不幸福

幸福的人沒要求 所以安 因有感恩心

當人追求完美到極 感恩心完全消失 便稱之為走火入魔 便成了瘋子 但如果慢慢練習感恩 便可變回幸福而安的人

所有敏感 包括情緒敏感 焦慮 不安 兩極分裂 屈燥 chur 都可用這感恩之法醫治

敏感症者 全因由 不懂感恩

感恩者無求 便安得幸福

小馬

罪只有一種 就是不懂欣賞

罪只有一種 就是不懂欣賞

福只有一種 就是懂得欣賞

The only sin is without Thankfulness

The only bless is with Thankfulness

Faith

Doctors and patients relationship lack of and in great need of trust faith and communication

Doctors contact hour with every patient only a few minutes, mainly by reading reports and government hospital always change doctors, private practice doctors are lack of experience.

Three minutes question and answer to prescribe medicine that the patients need to take for months or years that’s not sensible and not reasonable.

Feedback, close watch and follow up is in great need.

Many medicine after started there is no turn back

Patients looks for peace and comfort

Doctors looks for money and prevent responsibility

With these different aims and targets and doctors controls the patients treatment and medicine seems clear that patients peace and comfort target is out the window.

Respect and faith is needed between doctors and patients through verbal and written communication.

Mental

Mental

Mental illness is top illness in developed cities.

Many fell ill due to unnatural and polluted food and drink

Many fear to seek advice from professionals due to a stereotype and story as follow:

Mental illness is the illness of lack of trust and faith, we all think mental patient ‘don’t know what they are doing’ so no one have faith in them.

Mood patients don’t know how to express their own feelings through speaking writing and actions that’s why they stored up so much fear anger and hatred in them to exploding point because they care too much.

It is the most horror if there is no one have faith in you and force needles and medicines on you and their say its good for you but its actually good for themselves and others and you don’t know the way to stop them doing so.

Doctors would ask you very gently and nicely: now there, would you tell me honestly, would you ever think of harming yourself and others?

If you answer yes, they would have the right and responsibility to force needles on you.

What they expect is a lie, key is mental patient would not lie, if you ask the doctor the same question or if you ask them what if yes and what if no and see how they answer.

The doctor is messed up and conflict ideas in their way of dealing with patient, they ask: would you like to harm self and others?

Logic is if the patient is ill his or her answer is not trust worthy, base their answer to force needles on them, doctors is lunatic themselves

Patient want to kill because there is strong fear anger and hatred in them, we have to find out through speaking listening reading writing and communication with them.

Coaching them to communicate for them to express their own negative and positive feelings that is buried deep inside them and help them to communicate and bridging with others the general public and the world.

Key is to pin holes in this fear anger and hatred balloon to release the air before it explode.

NEVER force medicine and needles on them to make them too dull to think, this would make their inner anger increase creating a much much more danger state for themselves and others

It is like a pot of boiling soap (brain with mood illness), we want to drink (wellness) now, we pour ice(medicine) in the soup (brain with mood illness) but without turn of the fire(express feelings through communication).

Key is to turn off the fire and it would cool without have to pour ice to cool down and dilute the nice soup.

Counselling and clinical psychology is to speak out and write out and communicate well all your feelings is turning off the fire

Medicine is pouring ice on top, ice would dilute and mess up the soup (the brain) and make it taste not good(not healthy)

It is more silly to take medicine without expressing your own fear anger and hate through speaking and writing to the correct parties for example the on duty church staff that would help you.

Seems to me doctors only takes 3 actions increase decease and keep the same dosage of medicine and for them to pay their dinner they keep the patients ill and feed them with pills n needles and the giant medicine companies makes the medicine addictive in itself

So when you have little mood take medicine and have no turn back

We should seek clinical psychologist for non medicine advice first.

Life is about questions and answer in logic and expression of feelings, conversation with medicine doctors needs logic and with clinical psychologist and counsellor need expression of feelings.

Help

Harm and help are two basic human nature.

We harm others because we fear we anger and we hate because we lack of love

We help others because we are full of love and want to share our love with others

Family background and childhood is a key, when a person grow up in a not safe environment, he lives in fear and non safety anger hatred and greed so he has to protect himself

This protecting action harms others and makes others put off, people either run away or harm him in return, the more he is harm and not safe, the more fear anger and hatred he has and the stronger the repelling and resisting force to fight back to form a viscous circle

We can pray to God and express our feelings in details, communicate through languages, speeches and articles to express our fear anger and hatred, it is like pinning holes in a balloon to prevent it to burst.

We can help self and others through communication, mood problems originates from don’t know how to express our own feelings to others and no bridging with the outside world, if we communicate our feelings well through speeches and articles we would not have mood problems.

Expression of mood through speeches and articles needs daily practice bit by bit for it to be able to run smooth when needed.

Fear

Fear and love

Greed and hatred

We fear because we lack of love

We can get love from God or make our own and share it and do not expect anything in return to avoid getting hurt and injured.

We can create love and motivation from sports, arts and positive leisure activities and avoid compete compare and insult on win and lose

Human have fear which form greed and hatred so and because we compete compare and insult on the process and result.

From young we are taught to fear we cannot make a living when older so we learn and beat others in test exam and competitions

We have a group of friends so we bully and pick on ones that don’t communicate well who don’t have friends.

When we work and in sports games and even in art, we fear so we want to beat others to reach success for feeding ourselves and gain comfort

We fear, we greed for comfort and thirst for winning so we hate when we lose and we harm and destroy when we hate which creates more fear for self and others.

Praying to God does help and be aware of your own thoughts speeches and actions and be aware to stop to pass on any fear greed and hatred instead pass on the love of God to everyone you know and everyone you meet.

這個世界上 並沒有瘋子 只有不懂得 有效地溝通 表達自己內心感受的人

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Devil

Devil

We are directed by our mood, many try and learn to direct our mood but no one can tell they success or not.

Mood is well when balance, too high or too low imbalance mood irritates us.

Key is not to harm self and others and further these over high and over low mood when we experience them.

We have to communicate and express our feelings but key is to love and not to fear and harm in whatever we think say and act.

Pass on and spread the balance love comfort and peace, stop the imbalance fear greed and hatred wherever whenever whoever whatever however.

Christian

We believe in God simply because we have many problems to be solved and some wish that need or want to fulfil

And many say God can help us to solve these problems and fulfil these dreams and wishes

But the fact is, when we go to church everyone prays to god and our problems are out of the topic and our problems stays there rotten and untouched, dreams and needs are not fulfilled

Brothers and sisters always say I pray for you, god knows they really do, may be that’s all they do, even if they do I dont see much difference anyway

We wish every time when we go to church we can solve our problems and fulfil needs but result is completely opposite

At the end of every night, we go through process of praying and many procedures which adds onto our original problems.

Some say church is a place much more complicated than the outside world, when we think we can put all our problems down with god, can we really? It worth a real think again.

Fail

Fail

Dear those who fail:

Do things only within your own ability

Do what you enjoy and enjoy what you do

If we fail we should leave

If we fail again and again, we must leave

Personally forced myself to study and worked hard for being first fifteen rugby team, school prefect and head of house

Fact is due to discrimination I got none of them, everyday I attend school I was living in hell because fact proof I am an absolute failure.

Finally I got nervous breakdown because I force myself doing something out of my ability which I should have ran away and avoided for

Many champion and winners when they shared their story they shared persistence and they said if you fail then try again, that’s a true lie because they have talent, they enjoy what they do and they have ability to do it

If anything hurts, avoid it, wait till it kills then its too late for you and your love ones

Doing things you don’t enjoy and out of your ability you and your love ones will suffer, your enemy would be in joy to see you and your love ones suffer in pain

Be sensible:

Do things only within your own ability

Do what you enjoy and enjoy what you do

Gift

Gift

This article is dedicated to my gifted student Alex

Everyone got their own gift

We have to develop our gift and strength and neglect our weakness

Gift is what we find interesting and find relatively easy success compare with others on.

For things we fail in we have to avoid and run far from them as they would drive us moody and ends in madness and self-destruction

Develop gift enjoyment process is a gift in itself, when we are self actualised self assured and found confidence pleasure and happiness in pursuing our gift that’s all that matters in life really.