if you find it hard, then it is the hardest, need not worry, it is just passing by, stay off its track and you will be ok.

if you find it hard, then it is the hardest, need not worry, it is just passing by, stay off its track and you will be ok.

value

value

you are how you make of it

treat others as you would like to be treated and you would be treated as you would like to

it is easier to control how you treat others than to control how others treat you

give before you can get

the brighter you shine, the more you must care for ones around you

what goes round comes round

know and be confident of your true values and selling points but needs to follow rules of nature

routine

routine

the power of a mouthful can eat the world

the power of a grain can built dessert

the power of a drop can fill the sea

the power of a ray can light planets

the power of none can fill universe

what we practice daily is what we are in test and exam of our tough times

practice what you want to be daily

things wont come in a bang...till you practice daily 

無形容詞 無名詞 no label no adjective no noun

無形容詞 無名詞

no label no adjective no noun

無形容無名稱

無相對無分別無比較

無代表無標籤

無量度無計算

無規矩無規則無規律

無限制無法規

無標準無規範

無空間

無時間地方人物

無法理情

無情緒情感情理

無貪嗔癡

無苦

無問題無煩惱

無身心靈

無相

無你無我無眾生

無福祿壽命運

無生老病死無成著壞空

no n none

no n none

‘it all seeded n started from adjectives and nouns that you put on things to make it come true

stop using adjectives and nouns labels is the key to your locked cell’

ghosts cannot scare babies

you must learnt what a ghost is before ghosts can scare you

we are so happy during baby times, the older we get, the less happy we become, why?

because from birth onwards we learn to put adjectives and nouns labels on anything and everything

we learn different rules and measurements to measure and compare ourselves with

things become relative, yin and yang, black and white, right and wrong and we become happy and sad with questions and problems arising

our memory bank store more and more bad experiences and feelings, in order to prevent them from happening again, we become cold blooded and freeze up our heart feelings, to feel good and for self benefit, we can do anything and everything needed 

if you become so ill that your soul mind and feelings is jailed, my method is for you:

you feel bad?

what is bad?

bad comes to life when you describe it with the adjective bad and with a noun of yourself relate to it

your brain trace back to the memory bank of model responses and feelings to make you feel truly bad with related bad thoughts speeches and actions correspond to your adjectives and nouns effects from every part of you expressing and acting these actions to express your feelings

it all seeded n started from adjectives and nouns that you put on things to make it come true

stop using adjectives and nouns labels is the key to your locked cell

no adjective no noun no label

no adjective no noun no label

“adjectives and nouns labels controls n jails our mood and soul

to jail break, stop using adjectives and nouns labels

full stop”

from birth we started to learn adjectives, nouns and labels anything and everything we know

as we get to around 30 years old, our adjectives nouns and labels bank is exploding with many ill meanings and bad experiences links to them which drag us down

adjectives nouns and labels is the seed which grows roots stem leafs etc

when we use adjectives and nouns to label people matter n stuff, we traces through the roots to the fruits of good and bad experiences stored in our memory which effects our mood with thoughts speeches and actions which controls us

we have soul so we have mood

soul have mood due to these nouns and adjectives labels 

adjectives and nouns labels controls n jails our mood and soul

to jail break, stop using adjectives and nouns labels

full stop

苦惱？ 不安？ 不和？

苦惱？

不安？

不和？

改善關係

溝通補習

對象：子女 父母 夫婦 情侶

           兄弟姊妹 上司下屬

電話 ∕ SMS / whatsapp / 留言：

馬碩鴻 (matthew ma)

91940869

symbolic

symbolic

everything represents themselves

when we hear someone swear, scream, shout or hit us, we would be very angry and revenge, hitting them back or something

if we are a baby, would that be different?

yes, we don’t know the words, the sound and the action represent

they are just feelings, when it hit us, it hit us, then its gone

as we grow old, our mind are full of labels

this mean that and that mean this, we become more and more messed up and confused

actually, what we feel is what we feel

it hit us, it hit us, its gone, its gone

no symbolic

no relation

no memory

light life

zen

now

now

flexible, here and now

adapt to change any moment

accept and appreciate limitations

communicate, appreciate, cherish, respect and faith

communication is needed between souls

if we cannot change, we should adapt

we should accept now and utilize what we have

many use communication advantages to benefit themselves over ones less able to communicate than themselves 

many communicate well but others pretend not getting the message for their own good

wise men knows feelings of others and themselves and make others and themselves feel good as a result and target

clever and smart guys knows the feelings of themselves and others but they choose to benefit themselves and sacrifice the feelings of others

dull boy don’t know the feelings of themselves and others and they harm others and themselves by doing not appropriate actions with their raw feelings.

write straight from heart and never check what i write...this is matthew ma

self II

self II

when Jon’s parents divorce they feel guilty when they face Jon and they use cash n luxury goods to exchange for Jon’s acceptance and forgiveness

no matter Jon accept or reject the cash and goods will do no difference to the decision, fact and result of his parents separation

in other words, Jon’s parents love themselves more than they love Jon

shall Jon accept cash and goods?

key is the cash and goods is symbolic for contract of acceptance of exchange for forgiveness which is not quite right and fair

Jon’s parents is responsible for forever for this damage done to Jon and no matter what they do they can never get even with Jon

cash and presents does not equal to getting even

what can Jon do?

Jon can do nothing but accept the limitations of the selfishness of human including his parents

If one day he is dad of others he could love his children more than he love himself.

self

self

Jon’s parents use money and luxury goods to exchange Jon’s acceptance of their divorce

Although what Jon truly need is a family but this cannot come true because his parents put their own feelings and benefits before jon’s

they love themselves more than they love Jon

Jon can refuse or accept the money but both ways will do absolutely no difference to the decision of separation of his parents and will do no difference to parents put the importance of themselves before Jon

same situation with my parents, they will never change, they will never put me before their own feelings and benefits

if i accept what they want to give me or if i refuse what they want to give me will do absolutely no difference to the order they put themselves in front of me

everyone put themselves before others, no matter how close the relationship

even family and love ones, this is human.

改善關係 溝通治療

苦惱？

不安？

不和？

改善關係

溝通治療

對象：子女 父母 夫婦 情侶                          

           兄弟姊妹 上司下屬

電話 ∕ SMS / whatsapp / 留言：

馬碩鴻（matthew)

91940869

改善關係 溝通治療

苦惱？

不安？

不和？

改善關係

溝通治療

對象：子女 父母 夫婦 情侶

           兄弟姊妹 上司下屬

電話 ∕ SMS / whatsapp / 留言：

馬碩鴻（matthew)

91940869

改善關係

苦惱？

不安？

不和？

改善關係

溝通治療

對象：子女 父母 夫婦 情侶

           兄弟姊妹 上司下屬

電話 ∕ SMS / whatsapp / 留言：

馬碩鴻（matthew)

91940869

Mental illness 精神病 is renamed as 多情病 Passionate disease By matthew ma On 9th nov 2012

Mental illness 精神病 is renamed as
多情病 Passionate disease
By matthew ma
On 9th nov 2012

Dear Mrs. A (renew version)

Experienced your sharing last night about you son, feelings arising from bottom of my heart, try to share my view and hopefully useful to you

From your sharing I feel that:

You are lack of appreciation, communication, faith and respect

You have very limited appreciation, communication, faith and respect over yourself and others especially ones close to you

Your son like anybody else is full of talents and gifts and you do not want to notice and admit this

You only choose to focus on his impairment and to make yourself angry and beg for others pity

Everyone has different gifts and impairment, it is up to you to choose what you focus on

Currently you only focus on impairments and attracted by negative labels of yourself and others

You need to aware and practice to focus on gifts and be attracted by positive labels of yourself and others

The world is full of good things and you need to practice to aware them, appreciate and thankful for them

You need to observe and understand your son’s feelings by learning to communicate with him

You do not appreciate and not thankful for having a gifted son

You have no faith in your son

You disrespect your son

You have not yet found out the way to communicate with your son so you do not understand why and how his feelings, his thoughts and actions

You son seems to be a symbol of insult to you

You do not appreciate and not thankful for what you have and what you not have

You only focus on his bad and never willing to notice his good

You feel unsafe

You want to control everyone and everything and when things and people out of your control, you have strong anxiety

You are highly alert at all times

You are extremely clever but extremely unwise

You are very poor in communication

You have poor interpersonal and social skills

You fire questions at who ever have a conversation with you and make others pressurised, uncomfort and unease

You love others lay a pity on you by trashing the image of your son

You created illusion to yourself and everyone else that you love your son so much

The truth is you love yourself and you spoil yourself with a greedy and selfish heart

You use the excuse that you love your son to cheat yourself and to cheat the world to cover up the fact of you spoiling yourself in order not to feel bad

You don’t want to lose him and feel bad so you grab hold of him till he cannot breath and he hates that and that’s why he punches you

You are being totally selfish

Stop being selfish

Let go

If you hate him why you grabbing hold of him?

Because you don’t want to get hurt, you control him to fulfil your own greed and secure feeling and this is not love

If he knows all the maps and roads in Hong Kong, surely he knows the way home, why following him around

Aren’t you being silly and making a fool of yourself and your son?

That’s why your son hates you

Because you makes a fool of him and insults disrespects and discriminates him

You are practicing and fulfilling your greed to the extreme by sacrificing your son

So far he is just a tool for you to fulfil your greed

Stop it

Let go

Communicate

Understand

Appreciate

Be thankful

Cherish

Faith

Respect

Let go

應每次做愛 投資新細袋

應每次做愛
投資新細袋

Dear mrs A

Experienced your sharing last night about you son, feelings arising from bottom of my heart, try to share my view and hopefully useful to you

From your sharing I feel that:

You need to observe and understand your son’s feelings by learning to communicate with him

You do not appreciate and not thankful for having a gifted son

You have no faith in your son

You disrespect your son

You have not yet found out the way to communicate with your son so you do not understand why and how his feelings, his thoughts and actions

You son seems to be a symbol of insult to you

You do not appreciate and not thankful for what you have and what you not have

You only focus on his bad and never willing to notice his good

You feel unsafe

You are highly alert at all times

You are extremely clever but extremely unwise

You are very poor in communication

You have poor interpersonal and social skills

You fire questions at who ever talks to you and make others uncomfort and unease

You love others lay a pity on you by trashing the image of your son

You created illusion to yourself and everyone else that you love your son so much

The truth is you love yourself and you spoil yourself with a greedy and selfish heart and you use the excuse that you love your son to cheat yourself and the cheating the world for cover up to feel good

You don’t want to lose him and feel bad so you grab hold of him till he cannot breath and he hates that

Stop being selfish

Let go

If you hate him why you grabbing hold of him?

Because you don’t want to get hurt, you control him to fulfil your own greed and secure feeling and this is not love

You are practicing and fulfilling your greed to the extreme sacrificing your son

He is just a tool for you to fulfil your greed

Let go

Communicate

Understand

Appreciate

Be thankful

Cherish

Faith

Respect

Let go

Arts

Arts

Hong Kong is a place with a wide variety and mixtures of cultures

But Hong Kong citizens drives too hard and forget to appreciate and thankful for what we work for

We have plenty of talented peoples in different fields especially artists in the artistic creative and innovative industry

But without public awareness government and public support our talent is buried, even if we noticed where our talents lie we would not believe in ourselves that can achieve anything with it

Talent cannot and need not be taught

We need talented people and let them feel free to create

Everyone of us has a free mind that’s  enable us to create

Lets be thankful

Lets sparkle our gift

Lets create  

佢未識同你溝通 你未明白佢 唔等於佢傻 你唔識貨 唔代表佢無價值

佢未識同你溝通 你未明白佢 唔等於佢傻

你唔識貨 唔代表佢無價值