Fear and greed

Personally was a perfectionist

I greed

I fear

I hate

I look for perfect

I need to win ten out of ten first hit

So I never do anything because I fear of losing

I wait till the best moment to make the 100% success hit but it never comes so I keep waiting and rotting

Anything include successful relationship and successful career is not 0 or 100% win or lose success or fail

It is a natural flow of fate

Believe in bite size

Believe in bit by bit

Nothing ever comes and goes 100%

Everything comes and goes gradually

We need to build up bit by bit

For good things, never say it too little and not do it

For bad things, never say it too little and do it

Baby learning theory

0-3 years learns everything quickest

3-8

8-12

13-18

18-24

24-30

Slows fragile non flexible and moulded along the age

Our biggest enemy is ourselves, our own fear, fear of losing, failing and getting hurt and not believing we can recover from injury and not believing we can achieve.

Baby learning is by all senses

Personally hate school learning especially grammar.

I love baby learning especially in languages with both success in English and mandarin.

When I see my mate james, he is pointing to something round in red color and he created sound in his throat and mouth shape as I observe and listen ‘red ball’

So I recorded his sound waves and mouth shape motions movements videos in my brain

Next time I see the same color and shape thing, I recall these info in my brain

These info in my brain send replica orders to my throat and mouth to produce same sounds and motions…red ball

This is how I learn languages quickly

But key is you need to find a friend that would not say you are wrong

Your mate must be keep on chatting with you as flows and never correct you because if he/she stops to correct you or repeat, your confidence will shatter.

Intuition直覺

Intuition直覺

Intuition is when we sense and receive messages

Signals sends to our brain

Brain calculates for best solutions to react and response

Then action response and react

All these step happen in millionth of a second in which we are not quick enough to realise or aware or believe it is true.