Baby talk

Own a pet or owning a baby

Most people would use baby talk and pet talk to satisfy their own desire of being a control freak

I am adult

I am master

I am owner

I own you

I teach you

I train you

Listen to me

I am right

You are my pet

You are my baby

I shape you

I control you

You need to be how I want you to be

I know what I am doing and you don’t

I am better than you, although the world seems tough but at least I am tougher than you

I protect you

I have value

I have purpose in life

I am stronger than at least you

I am more success at least compare to you

I am clever at least compare to you

The truth is:

You are living in your dream and you drag your pet and your baby’s life along into the dark hole of your life created by generations of your family causing endless social problems to the world

You need to LET GO

Let go to set yourself and your love ones free.

LET GO

Obstacles

Obstacles

Learning obstacles may seen as one of the most disastrous obstacles in everyone of us especially in childhood.

We are all unique

We all have different gifts and obstacles

We are sensitive to different things

We all learn differently

We all have different learning patterns

We all have different learning styles

We all need to tailor made to measure our learning style to learn efficiently

We need to find out and know well our own gifts and obstacles in order to learn and grow happily

We need to observe and discover our best learning styles in order to enjoy learning and development

Learning should be a relaxed enjoyment

Learning should not be stress frustrated despair pressurized nor destructive or negative

We start to find out best way of learning out of school

Traditional schools is a chips factory but we are all potatoes

We want to be hand cut chips

We need to be respected but firstly we have to respect ourselves by putting away our greed

Schools is the graveyard for creativity and innovation dreams and free thinking

We need to enjoy learning and enjoy whatever we do.

If we hate something, DROP IT, QUIT IT, SLAP IT, SLAM IT, DUCK IT, FUCK IT

FULL STOP

Relationship

Relationship

Relationship is not ON/OFF button

Relationship is the Sun, the Moon, the Stars and the Sky.

Love is not Yes/No answer

Love is not Win/Lose game

Love is not control

Love is not to own

Love is not nervous stress anxiety

Love is not only for sex

Love is not a plan

Love is not one way street

Love is a relaxed comfort and peaceful feeling you enjoy

Love is to give out a relaxed comfort and peaceful feeling

Love comes slowly gradually unexpectedly

Love comes and goes naturally

Love never comes suddenly

Love is learn to give

Flexible

Flexible

Adapt n flexible are good but also means lack of confidence

Winners has strong adapt n flexibility try their best but key is to know when to give up n let go n not to take on others responsibilities till you breakdown or drop dead

Confidence can save you also can kill you

Confidence means you believe in yourself n believe in everything you do is absolutely right

Its lucky you got the direction right with confidence but what if you get it wrong and you still think you are right and you are in power or in control, you will kill everyone in your family or in your team.

Learning

Learning

Learning in school and university meant a great bored and pain to me even in the UK

Reason I found out after almost five years I left education is everyone including meself has gifts and obstacles in our personality and life include learning styles and ways

We could not exactly call these illness coz illness is just a word to describe certain so call minorities in which there is no fixed sample numbers to state what is majority and what is minority

Everyone is unique

We are all unique

We all have our own unique gifts and obstacles

Let not praise too much when we found something good nor blame too much when we found something bad coz it is just as it is

No one is normal

No one is majority

No one is winner

It is all relative

When we do not control by labels

That’s when we are in peace

We follow rules because we are greed

When we greed we are not settled and have no peace

Want peace?

Lessen the in and out labels and messages from our sense to our brain

When messages lessen and die down and the dirt settled at the bottom, the clean clear water on top is available for us to enjoy

It is peace.