symbolic

symbolic

everything represents themselves

when we hear someone swear, scream, shout or hit us, we would be very angry and revenge, hitting them back or something

if we are a baby, would that be different?

yes, we don’t know the words, the sound and the action represent

they are just feelings, when it hit us, it hit us, then its gone

as we grow old, our mind are full of labels

this mean that and that mean this, we become more and more messed up and confused

actually, what we feel is what we feel

it hit us, it hit us, its gone, its gone

no symbolic

no relation

no memory

light life

zen

now

now

flexible, here and now

adapt to change any moment

accept and appreciate limitations

communicate, appreciate, cherish, respect and faith

communication is needed between souls

if we cannot change, we should adapt

we should accept now and utilize what we have

many use communication advantages to benefit themselves over ones less able to communicate than themselves 

many communicate well but others pretend not getting the message for their own good

wise men knows feelings of others and themselves and make others and themselves feel good as a result and target

clever and smart guys knows the feelings of themselves and others but they choose to benefit themselves and sacrifice the feelings of others

dull boy don’t know the feelings of themselves and others and they harm others and themselves by doing not appropriate actions with their raw feelings.

write straight from heart and never check what i write...this is matthew ma

self II

self II

when Jon’s parents divorce they feel guilty when they face Jon and they use cash n luxury goods to exchange for Jon’s acceptance and forgiveness

no matter Jon accept or reject the cash and goods will do no difference to the decision, fact and result of his parents separation

in other words, Jon’s parents love themselves more than they love Jon

shall Jon accept cash and goods?

key is the cash and goods is symbolic for contract of acceptance of exchange for forgiveness which is not quite right and fair

Jon’s parents is responsible for forever for this damage done to Jon and no matter what they do they can never get even with Jon

cash and presents does not equal to getting even

what can Jon do?

Jon can do nothing but accept the limitations of the selfishness of human including his parents

If one day he is dad of others he could love his children more than he love himself.