ability need and value
reality is the balance spot between abilities and needs
happiness is to understand the abilities needs values limitations difficulties and gifts of yourself and others around you
one of my client came to me with shyness and nervous obstacles, when she meet strangers and job interviews she shakes, eyes stares at the ground and stutters herself in words
i shared with her my golden triangle of ability need and value
everyone has abilities which exchange for their needs
both abilities and needs have values
i have five hong kong dollars in my pocket
i need to buy a bottle of water that cost five dollars
it must be water
it must be no more than five dollars
if i know i am water-my ability and gift
and i know my value is five dollars-my value
and i need five dollars-my need
if i know ability need and value of myself and ones around me, i would win every game i play.
