mood, action and communication

we need to find out or explain our action sometimes

normally we act and without aware and knowing why we act so

we have to communicate with ourselves and people around us

try and find out and explain our action and when we trace back to the origin there's how you can change

many people misunderstand themselves and others and ran into many arguments and fights but if we understand ourselves and explain ourselves well and gives a reason for what we do then in most cases people would understand where you are coming from and they may even help you for what you do

so understanding your own act and communicate well is a key to success

反叛與自發性 Rebellion and spontaneity

when we teach or lead we need to spark off the spontaneity in our clients

the more we tell them what to do and instruct them what to do and tell them can or cannot do this and that the more rebel they become

the more rebel the less spontaneity

key is to spark off their spontaneity like spark off an oil tank and let them explode

never give them a fire and burn for them

all they need is a tiny spark in their oil tank, a tiny spark in the right place