uncertainty
enjoy process of uncertainty
if you enjoy uncertainty, you would have an exciting life
if you hate uncertainty, you would have a tough life
no one and nothing is sure in life, guessing, predicting, planning are what the west educates us but they have proved themselves a big failure and creating crisis for the world
if you need to fix everything and everyone means you lack of flexibility and adaptation, you would create lots of tension and pressure with and on everyone and everything around you
people would just run away from you if they feel your pressure and control invading them
everyone has limitations and difficulties and enjoys being understood by others and understand others in return
couples understands and fulfills each others needs by communicating well with each other also fulfill each others must factors and miss out on each others must not factors
charisma is enjoying the uncertain process of understanding others limitations and difficulties and being understood by others in return and fulfilling each others needs through actions and communication.