Bad habits is a form of balance and release 240417

Bad habits is a form of balance and release 240417

Bad habits and hobbies is a form of balance and release key for us to carry on survive

Cigarette, drinking, masturbation, sex, gambling, exchange, bullying, they are a few bad habits

We try bad habits because we are under pressure and need release and balance

If you stop the bad habit without stopping the original pressure source, it might be family tension from parents and love ones neglect you, then pressure builds up and will explode

We all want to be good but all of us failed on something

Focus on what we can

Focus on what we able

Neglect ones make us feel bad

Beware of ones make us feel good

We are all gifted in something

We are all able in something

Enjoy your gift

Enjoy what you able.

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Exchange 240417

Exchange is life

Life is exchange

Where there is souls, there is exchange

Souls looks for peace and fears pain

Whatever souls do is to exchange in peace and exchange out pain in its values of items and properties

Everyone and anything there is a price tag on it showing its value

The value of importance and value of importance of its power that can help us reaching peace

Wise ones exchange and gets bit more peace

Dull ones exchange and gets bit more pain

From ancestors using a chicken for some vegetables, to sea shells to bronze silver gold coins, to paper cash and shares in stock exchange and proof of owner of property call receipt

From what we wear take stay move, learn earn heal, experience and exchange

From 1995 things started to exchange in data on the internet, data points in our mobiles replacing cash

Life is a game of exchange

Key is to peace but not pain

What goes round comes round

Treat others as you like to be treated

To balance yourself, repeat this till you calm:

Wish one: wish everyone experience what I experience

Wish two: peace to all souls

Flow with water…

With no marginal space, ones has to check and fear things goes wrong because he/she cannot recover when things goes wrong, ones are poor If ones has plenty resources and plenty marginal space and has no problem of recovery when things goes wrong, he/she is rich Poor Chinese fear of getting fired when late for work, they even fight to get on bus Rich west loves delays of traffic because it is not their fault and they can get an extra hour paid free time before work.

With no marginal space, ones has to check and fear things goes wrong because he/she cannot recover when things goes wrong, ones are poor

If ones has plenty resources and plenty marginal space and has no problem of recovery when things goes wrong, he/she is rich

Poor Chinese fear of getting fired when late for work, they even fight to get on bus

Rich west loves delays of traffic because it is not their fault and they can get an extra hour paid free time before work.

Marginal space 240417

Marginal space 240417

Marginal space is key for health

Ones with suitable marginal space in life, are ones enjoy relax and peace

Ones with mood and mental disorder are ones without aware the need of giving self and others marginal space in life

Everyone and every matter is like a page, when we write on it, marginal space should be left on surroundings, so Chinese says, see a person’s writing can read the personality and practice writing can practice being a well being

Ones neglect marginal space for self and others would find everything very tight all round, financial, meeting time, food and drink, resources, what you wear, take, stay, move and spend, learn earn and heal

Neglect marginal space originates from neglect from love ones, especially neglect from parents

Why mood patients has to repeat themselves, because their parents neglect them, so they repeat again and again till its heard and understood but tragedy is they got send to mental home instead

Ones got neglect by would repeat themselves and repeat checking with obsessive compulsive disorder, anxiety all originates from neglect marginal space

If parents give their children or even old parents gives their adult children attention, listen to their need and not just complete checklists in life instead gives plenty of time caring and loving each other, nothing to do is best time for caring

Parents neglect children usually because parents are hyperactive, their cannot stand boring and has to compete again checklist

The power of boring originates creativity and nourish love care and everything positive

Boring is a luxury

Ones neglected by parents, parents feeds them, give them money for survive or even some luxuries cash but not love and care

Do you know the feeling of your child

Do you know what your child need

Do you know what your child is thinking

Do you respect and appreciate your child

All these can be found out with bit of free time but not cutting all the marginal space leaving flesh and bones expose

Ones originates mood disorder is you order you child to peace in bed but setting fire to the child’s bed at the same time and you wonder why your child is irritating and not peace

You may find this fool but all mood patients family shares this story and this story happens in hospitals, caring homes, exchange spaces

This story shows the fool of human, when you laugh at this joke, you are one of us

Ones with marginal space is relax and is never late, because he/she takes account of accident time on the way.