Dear mrs A

Experienced your sharing last night about you son, feelings arising from bottom of my heart, try to share my view and hopefully useful to you

From your sharing I feel that:

You need to observe and understand your son’s feelings by learning to communicate with him

You do not appreciate and not thankful for having a gifted son

You have no faith in your son

You disrespect your son

You have not yet found out the way to communicate with your son so you do not understand why and how his feelings, his thoughts and actions

You son seems to be a symbol of insult to you

You do not appreciate and not thankful for what you have and what you not have

You only focus on his bad and never willing to notice his good

You feel unsafe

You are highly alert at all times

You are extremely clever but extremely unwise

You are very poor in communication

You have poor interpersonal and social skills

You fire questions at who ever talks to you and make others uncomfort and unease

You love others lay a pity on you by trashing the image of your son

You created illusion to yourself and everyone else that you love your son so much

The truth is you love yourself and you spoil yourself with a greedy and selfish heart and you use the excuse that you love your son to cheat yourself and the cheating the world for cover up to feel good

You don’t want to lose him and feel bad so you grab hold of him till he cannot breath and he hates that

Stop being selfish

Let go

If you hate him why you grabbing hold of him?

Because you don’t want to get hurt, you control him to fulfil your own greed and secure feeling and this is not love

You are practicing and fulfilling your greed to the extreme sacrificing your son

He is just a tool for you to fulfil your greed

Let go

Communicate

Understand

Appreciate

Be thankful

Cherish

Faith

Respect

Let go