反叛與自發性 Rebellion and spontaneity

when we teach or lead we need to spark off the spontaneity in our clients

the more we tell them what to do and instruct them what to do and tell them can or cannot do this and that the more rebel they become

the more rebel the less spontaneity

key is to spark off their spontaneity like spark off an oil tank and let them explode

never give them a fire and burn for them

all they need is a tiny spark in their oil tank, a tiny spark in the right place