love and greed
differentiate love and greed
differentiate care and control
differentiate give and take
differentiate ‘giving loving care’ and ‘taking greedy control’
all souls look for peace
love makes us greed but also stops our greed
all souls have love, love makes us greed makes us fear makes us hate and makes us pain and not in peace but all of us look for peace because we have love
care is to give and control is to take
peaceful soul is not to give and not to take, it is self sustainable and self satisfactory, Buddha is an example, it is balance energy in time space and dimension
we are the combination of a sperm and an egg from parents
so although after birth we are independent and separate from parents, parents would ‘care’ but actually ‘control’ us
parents still think we are part of their body, imagine part of your body is out of control and you would do whatever it takes to take the control back because you feel not peace
you feel not peace because part of you can think for itself and have independent decisions and learn on itself
parents has to differentiate we want kids to self dependent or to be controlled by us till we pass away and they carry on controlling by someone else?
treat your kids like a moron and they would be one
treat them like an adult and they would be one also
parents has to control ones own greed if you love your love ones
care is to give and control is to take
know when to give and when to take
when you are giving care, admit it
when you are taking control, admit it
there is nothing to hide and nothing can hide
never mix up between the two and never lie about it
as it easy for others especially your kids to feel does your actions matches your speech
if they don’t match, kids will feel you insult their intelligent and trashes their faith on you and would cause kids pain and unpeace and insecurity, anxiety, nervousness, substances abuse, addictive and criminal behavior, obsessive compulsive disorder and always checking behaviour, hyperactive disorder and schizophrenia, self destructive and suicidal behaviors, attacking and terrorists behaviors at the end creating disasters for themselves and ones around them
they will be destructive to themselves, their love ones and ones around them, all caused and originated by and from parents and ancestors
so parents and ancestors are responsible for all good and bad, if you cannot change your parents, you know what to do when you are a parent of your kids.
every bit of our actions on ourselves and others, especially on our kids and love one can change the future of mankind
give or take?
care or control?
be fair be square
